I have vaginismus following an 'unfortunate sex incident' shall we say.
I went for an examination to check the damage from said incident and the doctor said I am due a smear test and it won't be possible given how much I am tensing-he acknowledged it was psychosomatic, I have never been afraid of smear tests and never have missed one.
I mean, they're not pleasant are they? But I've always managed to have them. I didn't realise I was tensing but I must have been.
He didn't really give me a choice-just said the vaginismus is severe and I'll be put under.
Fair enough-but has anyone had one this way? What was it like? What can I expect to happen?
I've also never had a GA. I am surprised, but I don't feel so afraid of it. I've always dreaded having to have one-I guess this is a bit different as it isn't 'going under the knife' and one of my fears was always waking up mid-op, and if I did this time, wouldn't really matter so much.