no judgement please me and my partner have been together 5 years he’s always been quite controlling where he can do what he likes and basically he put a negative spin on what I want to do we basically are on the last chance at the relationship we have a 2yr old daughter together we don’t live together that’s just how it is , anyway I asked him did he want to go on holiday abroad and he says no way with a 2yr old kicking off in the heat so me and my mum booked for the three of us. I’ve been loosing weight before the Holiday was booked and he’s turned he’s saying I’m going to get looks of men and being quite nasty so it’s a good job he wasn’t coming he messages last night and said he’s going tofly over for three nights obviously because he has trust issues, and I really don’t want him to come and ruin it