So the person I class as “my best friend” (and yes I hate that expression especially as I’m nearly 40) I don’t have loads of mates and I’m ok with that as I don’t have loads of free time for the ones do have .
anyway she just celebrated her birthday and 5 people went , and I wasn’t invited .
she is the type of person that makes out to each individual they are the best person in the world , again I’m not like this and maybe I got sucked into that .
But I feel so sad that I didn’t even get an invite , like what is wrong with me (the 5 people are not all friends they are separate mates with her, as am I )
I believe she has even hidden her what’s app story that she posted pictures on of it , as I can’t see it however my partner who has her number can .
I have just messaged her and was sarcastic and said…. “I’ll see if I can bag myself an invite to your birthday next year” (and laughing face) as I don’t wanna be too intense .
And she put back , that I know you like it just me and her and so does she ? But I’m still hurt , I’m not overly confident in myself lately , but I am really easy to get on with and should be no reason why I wouldn’t be good in a group . If anything I’m usually the life and soul and always get on well with new people .
Just feel flat and weird , as all my friendships feel so shit lately .
would you feel upset or would it not bother you ?