DH and I both work ft, we have teenage kids.
I do probably 90% of chores, admin, cleaning etc although DH cooks at least half the meals. Teens do certain things but not others grudgingly if asked. Everyone else seems to have mess-blindness.
After a particularly annoying day last week where I was hanging up a load of washing at 11.30pm and collected a wet towel, dirty socks, discarded crisp packet and plate, from the lounge I decided I'm not doing it anymore. Many many previous pleas, requests, moans, nags for everyone to pitch in, have ended with people agreeing to do more and 2 days later we're back to square one. So I suggested a rota. Everyone agreed. I showed them first and a few tweaks were made.
And....week 1 has been really good (for me!) It's so much nicer coming down in the morning to less mess or washing up etc and the teens aren't squabbling who empties the dishwasher or feeds the cats because they can see on the rota who's turn it is. I don't feel as resentful, like I'm the house skivvy.
Do others here have a rota? Does it work, or will the novelty wear off and it will slide back to me doing nearly everything? Is it too good to be true or can others reassure me it's the way forward?