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What do you want in Retirement?

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Retirementvisions · 27/01/2023 11:10

I have just been reading the thread on pension pots. Some people are saving big sums for their retirements. It has left me wondering what are your visions for retirement?
Do you plan on cruising the world full time?! Etc

My pension plan is a modest private pension to top up state pension. I will downsize the family home to a small manageable home and release the equity.

I want to live in a nice area within a vibrant community to dip in and out off. I want peace and nature. I'd like the NHS /care system to be running well. I'd like good healthy food at home and to eat out occasionally. I'd like to be able to go on walks and explore the UK. I will probably read more and do a few low key/cost hobbies. I don't foresee loads of world travel at that stage of life. I'd like enough money in the pot to pay for a decent care home should it come to it.

To those who are saving what are you saving for? 🤔 I'm a bit worried I'm missing something... or being totally boring and unimaginative!

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LeatherSoledShoes · 28/01/2023 17:02

SweetSakura · 28/01/2023 15:28

I agree @snowsilver I was very slim and fit and healthy all my life, sheer bad luck led to me developing a rare neurological condition in my mid 30s. Now I am on a bucket load of medicines and very limited in what I can do.

Another similarly fit and healthy friend died unexpectedly last year, out of the blue.

Two of my friends died in their early twenties (car accident and the tsunami)

Of course stay fit and healthy, but make the most of the life you have. None of us are guaranteed an old age, it's about striking a sensible balance between enjoying the present and saving for the future we hope we will have.

Couldn’t agree more. I was extremely fit before 18 months of chemo. Now I’m left with the permanent side effects and medication to counter them.

That fit and healthy people don’t get ill/are not struck down by illness is just not true!

SmileWithADimple · 28/01/2023 17:07

It's not true in all cases - but on average it is true.

DesertIslandCondiment · 28/01/2023 21:11

All of my Grandparents lived till 80 or in their 80's. One moved abroad in a one bedroom apartment looking out to sea but lived a lovely inexpensive life but didn't see family much. My others lived in a lovely little bungalow but saw their family all the time. Again an inexpensive one. They were all very happy.

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maddiemookins16mum · 29/01/2023 08:23

Good health, enough money and most importantly, time. As it stands I’ll be lucky to get 10 years.

Upwiththelark76 · 29/01/2023 08:33

I just want to make it to retirement !

Poppiesway1 · 29/01/2023 09:02

NameChangedForThissss · 28/01/2023 10:54

All these people stating good health - are you prioritising Heath, mobility, activity during your 40s and beyond? I know it’s not a guarantee but surely it makes sense to put in ground work and not just ‘hope’ you are strong and mobile at 70…
My DM has always been incredibly physically fit, looked after her mental health, always doing things like sudoku, making new friends, having new challenges (she hiked the Inca trail in her late 50’s) fit, slim, looks a good 10 years younger than her age. Unfortunately she developed Alzheimer’s mid 60’s and now can do hardly anything for herself and is moving to a care home in a few days. She is early 70’s.

Exactly this..
My GM (all her sisters) and DA were both in homes in their late 60’s due to lewies dementia and passed very early 70’s.. They never got to live their retirement out. I have 2 pensions, my first Im able to take at 60.. I don’t want to have worked all this time and then not enjoy time with my family. The second I can’t take until I’m 67.5.. and if I’m the same as the rest of the older women in my family I will be in a care home with dementia by that point anyway..

Epoch999 · 29/01/2023 09:10

I’d like to retire in a few years in my late 50s. I’ll Airbnb the heck out of my properties to make a little spending money for the first ten years until state and civil service pension kick in. Aiming to prioritise exercise, gardening, family and travel. I’m not interested in long haul.
i travel a lot for work so I so need to put down roots, have some regular activities for once and deepen friendships.
🤞for health to enjoy it
It’s so lovely to read about everyone’s plans and dreams. I love this thread.

clarehhh · 29/01/2023 09:11

For care home, Dads was £5;500 a month. So we can travel, repairs to house. Pay privately should we need a new knee or hip, belong to gym still and swim.Enjoy holidays and trips.

glasshole · 29/01/2023 09:38

My DP and I try to live now and also save. We are very lucky that we don't have champagne tastes and live in a very cheap area for housing. He owns a 2 bed ground floor flat that is currently adapted and our autistic son lives there with his brother . That will be fully paid off in 3-4 years. I am starting the process of buying my own house so we will have a property to rent out/take in lodgers in the future to subsidise our pension. Currently paying extra contributions of 15% towards the pension for DP as he is a bit older than me. We want his (very modest) lump sum of around to freshen up the kitchen and bathroom at the flat.

At the moment we get 1-3 trips away a year. We do it on a shoe string, we've never paid more than £330 for a sc week away per person and by travelling in term time we typically spend £150 ish per week on self catering accommodation and flights pp. This year we are going to the south of france in June and it's costing us £85 EACH with flights and a caravan. So budget for holidays is probably going to be around £1.5 - 2k with inflation . I am also due an inheritance of around £20k and we are talking about buying a motor home to tour Europe.

Hobbies are very cheap. I am an archer, Club fees are £150 a year and equipment is probably £200 so less than £10 a week. Dp plays guitar and has several already so costs are negligible. I make stained glass so can easily supplement my income if needed. All in all we expect to be very comfortable as our needs aren't huge or extravagant at all.

Daisicals · 29/01/2023 09:54

I retired at 68 with not a massive private pension pot, my partner has a much bigger pension pot.
Now two years later, my partner and I are spending much more than we ever intended . We go on a nice holiday abroad once a year and several UK air b&b breaks.
We go out with friends once a week to a pub quiz, which is great fun.
We eat healthily and always cook from scratch, but the money does not stretch as you imagine it will.
We are careful with money in between holidays.
We also like to help out our children and grandchildren .
We don’t feel old and are very active and fit.
Don’t underestimate how much you’ll need.
We are really enjoying life… stress free…like being in our 20’s again but with more money!

Snarf23 · 29/01/2023 10:03

As I wrote in that pension thread, I come from a family of people dying in their 60s/70s. I prioritise my health now, eat a good diet ( not perfect but nutritionally heavy) I exercise well and regularly. I don’t smoke and drink alcohol maybe once a week but not much.

I have one eye on retirement but I’m at least twenty years away that’s if I retire at 65. It’s bound to officially be 70 by then.

I have an NHS pension, I will have some form of long term savings. The house should be paid off in about 10-12 years. So I can bump savings up then. No inheritance in my family. I’m on a very average £24k. But we live a nice life and manage to travel which is important to me. It’s not often long haul but cheap and cheerful but the exploring is there. I’ve realised I may not have the health to travel and do lots by the time I retire.

Basically I live for now, I experience life while I’m able to but save an amount towards retirement. It’s not going to be much but it will be enough as I’m used to a lower wage anyway. Never been a high earner.

NameChangedForThissss · 29/01/2023 10:19

*Don’t underestimate how much you’ll need.

We are really enjoying life… stress free…like being in our 20’s again but with more money!*

Thats exactly what we’ve found, fortunately we do have a decent pension but it’s so easy to for example go for a walk and then add on a lunch out. My DH and I really can’t be trusted. We’re always doing things like this. Plus as the PP who made this point it’s nice to help the DC out too.

Tangfastic71 · 29/01/2023 10:21

Very much hoping to Airbnb the house for two or three months a year to people having work done on their own homes to facilitate some travel to lower cost of living countries for a portion of the year. Apart from that - lots of long walks - evening classes - good healthy food - time for friends and family - learn to sew - buy a camper van and really get to know the British Isles - volunteer at every festival going - see lots of comedy - watch every NT live showing available - volunteer for a homeless charity - get good at yoga - learn to paint

Nameneeded · 29/01/2023 10:54

I want to move somewhere beautiful and far flung where my English pounds will go further. I also want a simpler life which we do not currently have due to London lifestyle.

mdh2020 · 29/01/2023 11:05

To be healthy and to be able to travel (I do). And not spend so much time each week caring for DH, DM and GC. Sometimes I seriously consider getting a job in Tesco just to have an excuse not to be available.

MrsFrugal · 29/01/2023 11:15

Mischance · 27/01/2023 12:32

I have retired and realised, after several unfortunate happenings, that above all else what you need is health!

A big chunk of savings has gone on surgery: hip replacement, disc removal, cataract surgery etc.

Absolutely everything that you want to do in retirement is dependent on your health, and with the NHS petering out private care becomes very important - if you are 60 you do not want to waste the time you have left sitting on a waiting list for say knee surgery to get to the top of the list, by which time the condition and your mobility will have deteriorated.

So if you are currently healthy I would invest in private health insurance. It is truly awful to be in this situation with the NHS being run down and on principle I would not use private health care, but what the hell can we do?

I completely agree with this. I'm only mid 30s but I have worked as an A&E nurse for 12 years and health is the most important thing to me for retirement Iv seen how quickly life can change.

Sirius3030 · 29/01/2023 11:31

DanseAvecLesLoups · 27/01/2023 12:01

Ideally, I would like to be called out of retirement to do 'one last job' for my previous employers, a shadowy government intelligence agency. Given my fluency in Farsi and Russian and decades of experience in 'black ops' in and around Middle East and former Soviet satellite states I have a rare set of skills that the young guns at the agency simply don't posses anymore. I think my previous boss knows that such work is in my blood and that my new life as wine grower in France is not a replacement for my previous live on a knife edge career. I will take said job, ostentatiously for the money, but I will invariably get drawn into a multinational plot where my cynicism is challenged by a chance encounter with a group of freedom fighters and I end up doing the job, not for personal gain, but because I believe in their cause. I will probably give my life holding the last line of defence against overwhelming numbers of insurgents thus allowing my new found comrades to escape by helicopter.

If the freedom fighters escaped by a different route would you feel that your life had no meaning?
Just interested, as I have a similar set of skills...

Colette1404 · 29/01/2023 11:34

I don't plan for n fully re

Stuffin · 29/01/2023 11:38

I plan to do lots of walking as I have great countryside on my door step.

To have the time to exercise.

To have the time to DIY and tend to the garden.

To have time to shop for bargains and cook.

To have time to research and plan bargain holidays. We fly first class and get the best rooms etc because our holiday time is precious whilst we are working. When we retire I am looking forward to planning cheaper last minute getaways.

Colette1404 · 29/01/2023 11:39

Oops how do I delete? Meant I don't plan to ever fully retire. I'm 48 and retraining to be a Dyscalculia assessor. I have a maths degree and am a self employed maths tutor currently, love my job now but I have to work all term time. The assessing is a skills shortage area, demand will be high. I plan to work for 2 or 3 days a week in my late 50s onwards, in blocks of 6-8 weeks, then have 4-6 weeks off for travelling. New Zealand, Norway, Iceland. Its a bit of a pipe dream completely unbudgeted.
However the not going from full time to not working is important, as others have said too many people get depressed or very ill when they fully retire.

Soothsayer1 · 29/01/2023 12:30

I will make exercise and healthy eating the focus of my life, the same as it is now, live frugally and enjoy my various hobbies and interests ....the same as I do know.

FiguringLifeOutOneFuckUpAtATime · 29/01/2023 13:09

I'm reading this thread with interest to know people's retirement plans.
From my early 20's I've known I will most likely not make it to retirement age due to health. At that time I received a letter asking if I wanted to pay into my pension, as I had not earned enough over a couple of months to make contributions. I showed my mom and she (jokingly?) told me probably not worth paying as I most likely wouldn't live long enough to receive it. Sounds harsh but I knew there was some truth to that statement.

Since then I have not really paid much attention to pension contributions. I'm not married, and am focused on building my savings to enjoy some short holidays, cover emergencies and help my kids out later. I've still got 30-ish years left to work, so I'd like to be able to live comfortably enough for that time.

slowquickstep · 29/01/2023 15:06

Who would want to travel for months on end? I am mid 50s retired a few years and find any more than a month on the move exhausting. 6 months in a villa in one place is ok. Other than food, heat and maintenance we live on very little every week. we eat out when we want, we holiday often and we do what we like but to be honest you get t the point where you would rather be at home. You really don't need as much as you think you do.

Furrydogmum · 29/01/2023 16:20

To be healthy and happy for as long as possible with my lovely DH. Hopefully have enough money to be comfortable to the end.. I'm not a hot weather fan so will never spend on hot weather holidays, but really hope the fuel charges don't remain as high as they are so we can be comfortably warm in winter!

OnceRuralNowUrbanbliss · 29/01/2023 17:20

This thread has really got me thinking and actually looking into how much each of my pension pots are.

I think I'd like to work less but not give up so a new aim of mine is to have 3 or 4 day weekends/working weeks as never enough hours to do All The Things in a two day weekend.