How do you find time for dating?
When DH died I set about keeping myself busy and have created quite a nice sociable life for myself. I'm busy with clubs and interests every weekday evening and with friends or my parents/adult DC for most of every weekend. In an average weekend I might have 1 evening (of three) free and sometimes an afternoon.
I have no intention of every marrying or living with someone again, but some sort of relationship and sex might be nice.
There is "someone", both of us taking things very slowly and neither looking for anything serious, but with both of us having similar lifestyles we can rarely meet up without cancelling something else. These people were an absolute godsend to me in my hour of need, I'm not about to drop them. Likewise, I wouldn't want to be with a man who breaks commitments if he gets a better offer.
Obviously something needs to give and if we were serious we'd make it happen, but we're not.
How do you fit it all in?