When I first fell pregnant my ex boyfriend left me for another girl and didn't believe I was pregnant and said I was making up lies to try and keep him away from other girls and that I was "jealous" . I was very upset as this girl was messaging me saying horrible things and he was allowing her to say them. After that both of them blocked me and I was ready to face my pregnancy alone. A few months after another girl he was seeing added me and messaged me horrible things saying I wasn't pregnant and that my boyfriend was only ever using me and that if I was pregnant my unborn baby was going to be ugly because she said I was ugly and so much other nasty things. He allowed her to say this and laughed. I blocked both of them and I was so upset I remmeber sitting on my room floor crying my eyes out. Since my baby was born 20 months ago he first came into my daughters life when she was around 3 months old. He didn't contact me he contacted my mum and I stupidly gave him permission to see her so I told my mum to tell him he was allowed to see her. Since then I regret it because my mum has some sort of obsession with him she thinks he's dad of the year and can do no wrong. She knows what he's done to me during our relationship and during my pregnancy but she says I need to move on as it's in the past. I'm struggling to move on as so much has happened during my pregnancy and when we were together as he was abusive physically and so much more. I feel like just cutting the contact I can't stand him and I hate being tied to him. I hate him coming to my house to face my mum picking his daughter up and her thinking he's the perfect dad. She just can't see through him. This man has caused me so much hurt I feel like just cutting all contact off completely but I know this wouldn't be fair on my child. my mother says I need to move on and forget about it all as it's in the past. But I don't think I am able to move on and forget what's happened. What to do