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Feefee1904 · 11/01/2023 02:23

I’ve recently found out my husband has been looking up fuck buddies online.

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Feefee1904 · 11/01/2023 02:33

I need help please. I managed to wait about a week before I said anything, then it became too much for me. He said it was a mistake, he apologized profusely said it wasn’t what he was looking up to start with and it just led from one thing to another. He was apparently looking for a midget/tiny lady stripper for his brother. (No offence please I’m repeating what he said) Not that that’s ok anyway. 😞 I’m just devastated right now.

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Tamarindtree · 11/01/2023 02:36

If he was looking for his brother he would have mentioned it and had a laugh with you.

He is a liar and a cheat.

You have one life, spend it with someone whom loves, cherishes and respects you.

He is a low life.

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Feefee1904 · 11/01/2023 03:41

I have access to what he has been typing on google. He obviously doesn’t know this. He hasn’t asked or questioned how or why. I know this is bad. And not a mentally health to do but I can check everyday what he’s been looking at and also where he has been.

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Snugglemonkey · 11/01/2023 03:59

If I did not trust a partner to the extent that I even considered spying on them, that relationship would be dead.

Tamarindtree · 11/01/2023 05:41

Feefee1904 · 11/01/2023 03:41

I have access to what he has been typing on google. He obviously doesn’t know this. He hasn’t asked or questioned how or why. I know this is bad. And not a mentally health to do but I can check everyday what he’s been looking at and also where he has been.

He must know as you have questioned him!

How do you move on from this? I can’t see how you can.

Yiu don’t trust him and are spying on him and he is looking to hook up with strangers to fuck.

The relationship is dead as far as I can see.

He will always have longings to have casual sex which puts him and you at risk of STD’s and you will become obsessed and fright with anxiety over his internet and phone use and worrying what he’s up to ever time he leaves the house.

I don’t know is there are children in this loveless marriage but you need to set yourself free and split up ASAP.

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