Advice on school and bullying

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Hi to everyone I am hoping for some advice on a situation regarding my eldest child who goes to high school, my daughter has since September has been having some issues with a girl in her school with comment and pushing her, me and my wife's advice was to ignore it as she is immature, the girl in question has notoriety for being a attention seeker, we advised out daughter stay clear as comments she made were disturbing. Recently this girl made a horrific comment on my unborn child to my daughter while at school, the school has chased this up. BUT the parents of this girl decided to harass my heavily pregnant wife while taking my daughters to school. What can I do about this any advise that doesn't result in me using other types of methods.

Police.

Hope you've resolved this and all's well now. Sounds like a horrible experience 😕

Thanks but not yet, let's say the school is useless and the police in my area are probably the worst in Britain

If you or your wife are being harassed it's a police matter. Your daughter being harassed in school is for school to deal with. If this still hasn't stopped, request that your dd is not in the same tutor group as the other girl at high school and ensure that school knows they are to be kept apart where possible, i e. request that they are never put next to each other on a seating plan if in the same class.

Thanks for your reply but I did get the police involved due the stress my partner was getting when she was pregnant with the babies heart being elevated so my partner had to stsy in hospital for a few days, but the police done nothing, due to what they called it a civil matter, I come from a big family and most of them are on the wrong side of the law most of the time, I'm not I differ from how I deal with certain situations because I see how my dad and brothers deal with it and I don't agree. We are still close but they believe getting the police involved with any situation is a big no. Problems should be dealt with in the family. Their are so many occasions I could give you an example of this but its not my place to say. I try to do the right thing but it hasn't helped one bit.