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Are you middle class or not, the Allegra McEverdy test

79 replies

Teatime55 · 07/01/2023 10:15

In the frankly bizarre Guardian article today, Jack Monroe says she didn’t realise she was working class until she met Allegra. (I think shes trying to defend her WC credentials).

So Allegra went to St Paul’s, her dad went to Harrow and Oxford, and was a psychiatrist etc. Dhe built a business that sold for millions.

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Allegra_McEvedy

Anyway compared to Allegra I am definitely working class, are you?

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LitralViolins · 07/01/2023 11:57

PipinwasAuntieMabelsdog · 07/01/2023 11:56

JM is a poverty cosplaying fantasist.

This.

thesnow · 07/01/2023 11:58

Middle class people who say "I don't see class" are talking as much bollocks as white people who say "I don't see race".

HaroldsDogBowl · 07/01/2023 12:00

My daughter is called Allegra. I always get excited when I see her name. Grin

Greatly · 07/01/2023 12:01

That JM article was weird
I think the journalist thought she was drinking again and it certainly sounded like it.

Maytodecember · 07/01/2023 12:03

Jakeyachey · 07/01/2023 10:52

Who the fuck is Allegra and why would anyone give a shit what she thinks? What am I missing?

This.
personally I could give a damn if someone is WC, MC, whatever class.
Britain is obsessed, so 19th century.

yaflouloci · 07/01/2023 12:03

ShirleyPhallus · 07/01/2023 10:50

MN is utterly obsessed with class. I never think about it and no one ever discusses it in real life but on here there are daily / weekly threads about it and wondering if eating brioche makes you middle class.

Very true.

Xrays · 07/01/2023 12:07

The thing is in real life no one is ever going to talk about class because quite frankly it makes you sound like a horrendous snob. But here, anonymously, of course people talk about it.

GreyCarpet · 07/01/2023 12:13

thesnow · 07/01/2023 11:58

Middle class people who say "I don't see class" are talking as much bollocks as white people who say "I don't see race".

This would work if there was a definitive definition of 'middle class'. But there isn't.

Some people base it on income level, some on how people conduct themselves (behaviour/morals/standards), some on education regardless of income level etc.

It's like most things when people try to fit themselves into a defined category, they often find they can't.

Many years ago, I watched a programme about people on benefits. It was a politician (can't remember who, maybe Gordon Brown?) who was meeting people.

He spoke to one particularly girl who lived on benefits in a council flat. She declared herself to be upper class. When asked why, she stated that she didn't work and she didn't pay for her home. She had all the time in the world to do the things she wanted to do. So she couldn't be working class - because she didnt work. The only other people who were able to say the same were the independently wealthy upper classes. Therefore, she must be upper class. Just goes to show how meaningless it all is! 🤷🏻‍♀️

GreyCarpet · 07/01/2023 12:23

Britain is obsessed, so 19th century.

It is!

This is when the supposed 'middle class' emerged. When all those people who were able to fund setting up mills and factories wanted a way to distinguish themselves from those they employed to work in mills and factories and who were desperately aggrieved that they weren't upper class and looked down on others.

'Middle class' is all about looking down on others and finding them lacking compared to yourself.

Bo one else cares.

GreyCarpet · 07/01/2023 12:25

Xrays · 07/01/2023 12:07

The thing is in real life no one is ever going to talk about class because quite frankly it makes you sound like a horrendous snob. But here, anonymously, of course people talk about it.

Oh I know a fair few people who like to talk about class!

They're always the ones who feel they have something to prove 😉

Teatime55 · 07/01/2023 12:40

LitralViolins · 07/01/2023 11:57

This.

Yeah this.

my issue is she has spent the last time framing herself as working class and a representative of those people. That somehow she is extraordinary as a journalist breaking through all these barriers, which frankly weren’t there. She has no idea what it’s like for some people.

She’s used it in terms of presenting herself as having the lack of opportunities that many WC face. In fact, it mostly looks as if she fucked up at school (grammar school at that).

Instead whats she’s now saying is she’s not incredibly posh and in fact is probably extraordinarily average.

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Xrays · 07/01/2023 12:53

But what’s the whole point someone is trying to make? That because JM is (?) middle class that she couldn’t have been poor…? Because the two things are not mutually exclusive.

MassiveSalad22 · 07/01/2023 12:59

PleaseBeHappy2023 · 07/01/2023 11:56

I've read some shite on Mumsnet but this...

Who the actual fuck cares about your class compared to someone you've never heard of.

This in spades 😄

pelargoniums · 07/01/2023 13:03

Jakeyachey · 07/01/2023 10:52

Who the fuck is Allegra and why would anyone give a shit what she thinks? What am I missing?

She’s the founder of Leon and enormously wealthy. It’s not about what she thinks but about Jack Monroe claiming to be working class in comparison to her, because JM is thick as two short planks.

SmokeyPaprika · 07/01/2023 13:07

That’s not middle class that’s upper middle class. Private school (v posh one) etc

stbrandonsboat · 07/01/2023 13:15

The problem is, people can mistakenly perceive that their worth as a human being is based on what class they are. This is a very sad thing and not at all accurate. Class is irrelevant, all people are equal. Striving to be middle class so that you can feel superior to working class people is a character flaw and one that's best got rid of.

Xrays · 07/01/2023 13:16

SmokeyPaprika · 07/01/2023 13:07

That’s not middle class that’s upper middle class. Private school (v posh one) etc

I agree.

CaptainMyCaptain · 07/01/2023 13:18

Oldfox · 07/01/2023 11:14

  1. how would you know
  2. why would you give a shit?

You could start by reading the link in the OP then you would know what it's about.

GreyCarpet · 07/01/2023 13:25

stbrandonsboat · 07/01/2023 13:15

The problem is, people can mistakenly perceive that their worth as a human being is based on what class they are. This is a very sad thing and not at all accurate. Class is irrelevant, all people are equal. Striving to be middle class so that you can feel superior to working class people is a character flaw and one that's best got rid of.

Perfect summary.

SweetSakura · 07/01/2023 13:29

stbrandonsboat · 07/01/2023 13:15

The problem is, people can mistakenly perceive that their worth as a human being is based on what class they are. This is a very sad thing and not at all accurate. Class is irrelevant, all people are equal. Striving to be middle class so that you can feel superior to working class people is a character flaw and one that's best got rid of.

And so is strenuously insisting you are working class as though it somehow makes you automatically more heroic

GreyCarpet · 07/01/2023 13:45

SweetSakura · 07/01/2023 13:29

And so is strenuously insisting you are working class as though it somehow makes you automatically more heroic

Everyone who works is working class.

Goosefatroasts · 07/01/2023 14:21

@GreyCarpet

That simply isn’t true. You can’t compare barristers and the like who send their kids to private school over a dinner lady who’s kids are at the local state. Both working, one is much more privileged in society than the other.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 07/01/2023 14:29

picnicshicnic · 07/01/2023 11:28

Don't know much about Jack Monroe, never heard of Allegra, and not sure what the "test" is?

But having looked at Allegra's wiki I'd say she's very upper middle class, verging on upper class?

But very much agree with @frozendaisy

It has not so much to do with money as the things she mentioned - interests, hobbies, skills, lifestyle.

I was walking through one of the stations in London with a piano recently, young guy in in high-vis and splattered trousers (paint, cement, not sure) was playing the most beautiful music on the piano. At first glance he looked stereotypically working class (manual job) but had clearly been classically trained in piano.

I guess where money comes into it is that you generally need money to have the time and means to pursue hobbies such as this - instruments and tuition are expensive, ditto for painting, skiing etc.

But in general, meh, I don't know.

If it was anywhere near an art school or the Slade at UCL, he might have been a fine art student. When I was a student at UCL I was always a little awestruck by the effortlessly cool but very paint bespattered students emerging from the Slade's wing into the North Cloisters for a coffee break.

As for class, who knows these days, and how relevant is it? Back in the days when it was very difficult to move from one class to another it was probably a more important concept, but these days four kids can grow up in the same household, end up all doing very different jobs and leading very different lives, on different income levels, in some cases as a result of marriage to someone from a very different background. It's a much more nebulous concept now.

Teatime55 · 07/01/2023 14:40

I also think Allegra is incredibly posh, so suggesting not being her makes you WC, probably makes most people WC.
It’s poor reasoning to explain why she’s been calling herself that.

Middle class people can become poor of course. JM presents herself as WC and not having had the opportunities of someone MC, therefore limiting her options in life and career. It’s simply not true. If she had done well in school I’m sure she could have continued and gone to university with no particular barriers.

I think there are communities of WC people where it’s hard to break the cycle, especially in terms of education. We know WC can be poorly represented especially in print media, she’s been used as example of someone who wasn’t MC and managed to become a Guardian writer etc. and it’s not true. She’s complained she hasn’t got TV gigs because of her WC roots, seems entirely a badge she’s given herself.

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WeAreTheHeroes · 07/01/2023 14:43

I've read Allegra's wikipedia - was JM on the frugal cookery trail, etc before they were together? I.e. was it a meeting of minds or did JM copy Allegra?

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