i have been qualified as a nurse since September 2021. I work as a band 5 nurse, I work in clinics 9-5 so no enhancements. I LOVE my job but there was no overtime opportunities plus I am a single parent so would struggle to find childcare.
Anyway, this year I have quite a lot to pay for. My car is on its way out (it’s 9 years old), it’s SCRAPED through the Mot with loads of advisories. It truly is on its last legs, cutting out, needs loads of work doing to it etc. I live in fear it just won’t work one day. I work in a community job so need a car. I have no savings after putting myself through uni, I don’t struggle day to day don’t get me wrong I live fine but definitely only have a few pence left in my account by payday. With the cost of living etc my wages aren’t going as far, DS is getting bigger and is needing new clothes all the time (get most of them off Vinted!). Just life it a lot more expensive (as it is for everyone).
my priority is getting a new car (well, new to me). I’ve done the figures and basically there’s no way I can afford a car on finance on my current wage, i budget strictly and there’s no leeway. I move up slightly on the pay scale come September. I have been thinking of opting out of my pension for 1 year (I have been in it for just over 1 year). This would allow me the extra funds to pay for the finance on the car. It would only be for 1 year. In feb next year some I will be receiving some money (not a life changing amount, approx £4,000) so enough to cover the car payments and I will rejoin the pension. I am not stupid, I know what a good pension it is but right now I feel like I can’t get on any kind of even keel. I am not on the breadline in anyway, we have enough for food and for heating and have a secure roof over our heads but I don’t smoke, don’t have any subscriptions (that I pay for anyway, thanks mum 😂), no foreign holidays etc. I can afford to have my hair done every 8 weeks, ds has an extra curricular so like I say, we aren’t dirt poor but cutting out my £40 hair cut that I have 6 times a year isn’t going to help pay for a new car!
wow this is long. So yeah, I know it is last resort but right now I think it might be the right choice? I don’t claim any benefits (not entitled), exdp pays £150 maintenance so my monthly income is approx £1600 but that’s for EVERYTHING. My pension is approx £170 a month