I think I am bisexual.

[2023pending]

I’m 27. One DD. Recently single.

I have absolutely no idea how to explore this, I don’t have any friends anymore as ex was abusive so going to gay bars etc isn’t an option.

Im so confused right now

Dating sites? Frolo? Like any other relationships.

Get online.

Hi @2023pending

Glad you are rid of your abusive ex. I think the best thing to do is work on building your friendship network and self confidence back up before you rush into another relationship or dating. Gay bars are over rated (for women) in my experience.

Making gay/bi friends will be helpful, have a look on MeetUp and Facebook for local LGB social group but don't rule out straight friends either if your friends network needs a boost!

This is going to sound like a huge stereotype (and it is but it's also pretty true in my experience!) if you're even slightly sporty perhaps see if the local women's hockey or rugby teams have try outs, they're usually very friendly groups and there's a good chance there will be a few gay/ bi women or at the very least attitudes will be welcoming. Love Her Wild is another great network of supportive women for making friends and getting outdoors.

Hi OP, well done on leaving your ex. From experience don’t rush into a romantic relationship, including same sex. I didn’t let myself heal enough and I made mistakes. focus on making or renewing friendships - don’t write off old friends, people are very forgiving and accepting.

when you’re ready try joining some LGBT groups or some of the things suggested above. I’m also bi and I know bi dating is not simple when you have a child and no previous experience but it’s not impossible!

Hi OP, well done for getting rid of your ex, that's huge.

The Skirt Club is brilliant for 'exploring' :) they have events in London, Brighton and Edinburgh, if any of those are reachable for you.

Best wishes.

Popping back to say f/f relationships can be incredible but can also be very intense and emotional, especially if you're processing feelings about your sexuality and 'coming out' at the same time (not to mention vulnerable from previous relationship trauma!).

For you and DD's sake, take some time to work on being a happy and stable person / parent with good boundaries before you rush in and be aware that drama (abuse and manipulation) aren't exclusive to straight relationships.