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5 year old going to bed until 10pm

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namechange485732 · 28/12/2022 21:49

DD has never been a 'good sleeper' or close to what was described as ideal sleep.
As a newborn I literally don't think I slept for the first 6 months with her. She had dropped all naps by the age of 2.
For a couple of years she would get to sleep relatively ok. Although it slowly started getting later and later. Over the last 3/4 months she can not get to sleep earlier than 10pm. It is driving me mad if I'm honest. As I can't relax until she is asleep (if I don't stay in the room with her she won't go to sleep at all/will just lie there with her eyes open). She is always tired in the morning especially for school.
Even when she first started school I remember other parents talking about how tired their children were and how they are getting to bed for 7. DD still did not sleep. Is anyone else DC of a similar age like this?

I'm genuinely worried she has some form of insomnia.

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OnlyFoolsnMothers · 29/12/2022 22:23

Sorry OP I disagree, I don’t think a 5yr old should wake up tired if sleeping enough. Such young children tend to wake up energetic when they have enough sleep, and wake up before they need to

JustAnotherManicNameChange · 29/12/2022 22:35

namechange485732 · 29/12/2022 21:50

Thanks everyone again. We do have a nice calm bedtime routine starting at 7.15 she loves a lavender bubble bath, then it's PJs and bedtime stories then in bed by 8. I do also use white noise which I'm not sure if helps or not anymore it definitely use to.

One thing she said tonight (she isn't asleep yet it's DH turn tonight) is she can't wait for it to be morning and that she hopes she doesn't have a bad dream. She does occasionally mention bad dreams and I'm wondering if she is having them/they are scaring her and it's stopping her wanting to sleep.

She does literally just lie there and doesn't mess around. I do wonder like some if she doesn't need to sleep yet. She is tired in the morning when getting up but seems fine during the day and school have never mentioned anything.

Maybe try a dream catcher? The placebo effect can work wonders. DD used to have horrible nightmares but they majorly stopped or didn't seem so bad after we got one. Which had her convinced it worked so she was less anxious about having one before bed.

namechange485732 · 30/12/2022 08:24

@JustAnotherManicNameChange I have never heard of them. Thank you it's definitely worth a try

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