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How to say Thankyou,when words aren't enough?

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Wilff · 21/12/2022 22:36

I work as a loley part-timer for a very large national company. Because of such a huge amount of employees there are strict rules regarding attendance etc..
Without going into all the details, I have unfortunately had to have more days off than is permitted therefore requiring a review meeting with my line manager.
During this review I was asked questions which gave me an opportunity to actually tell someone (who was actively listening and taking the time to digest it all) about how I'm not coping with life and all the specific things that have happened.
During the following weeks my line manager would as often as practically possible, take me aside to keep updated on how I was getting on.

As well as being the person to nag/remind/push me to get certain things done that I had put off or that needed to be done to take small positive steps in the right direction.

A few days ago I had a call to say that my partner was so close to a suicide attempt that the police were waiting for me at home to take over . When I was at work the next morning, i broke down. Seemingly this was the final straw and my body couldn't deal with everything. Again I won't bore with how I fell apart (embarrassingly infront of a few colleagues) however my line manager was AMAZING.
She already knew the situation in great detail. She helped my breathing and calmed me down and gave me reassurance . Using my phone she called the necessary people.

From that moment on, I feel like my LIFE has changed..for the better!!
So much support and changes have helped me now in so many ways.

I literally don't know how to show appreciation.

"Thankyou " even with heartfelt sincerity and all the accompanying words of gratitude, can't explain how much she has done.

OP posts:
HilarysMantelpiece · 21/12/2022 22:44

Your gratitude shines through from your words.
Words are enough.... I imagine that you feel you must reciprocate with some gesture such as flowers or a gift. But, really, a card with your words will last longer, and will really convey how much of a difference she has made to you.

What a wonderful human- I hope your company appreciates her.

Wilff · 22/12/2022 20:48

Update!
This has turned out to be such a nice story now.
Today the top boss, head honcho just happened to be approaching the area I was standing, as he was about to continue on his way & walk pass me, there was a split second of eye contact & a nod, completely spur of the moment I asked if I could quickly speak with him. We have never had any sort of conversation before so although he looked a bit startled he gave me his attention.
He seemed touched & empathetic to the whole scenario and has suggested a great solution .
The company has a page where people can share various posts, one of which could provide the recognition I feel she deserves.
He has even offered to help me with it.
(I did tell him that this subject was delicate in that none of us would feel comfortable about it being common knowledge or made into a big deal)

Finally as I was getting ready to finish for the day when my line manager quietly sidled up to me with a much more shy, type of body language than usual she very quietly whispered that our top boss had relayed the conversation to her. I was a little embarrassed (for both of us) ,she wanted me to know how emotional it had made her and I could see her eyes trying to hold back tears. She gave a warm smile and said that the fact that I spoke to that particular person and the aim of my gesture was indeed all the Thanks she needed and more.

Xxxxxxx

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Simonsaysitschristmas · 22/12/2022 20:52

Ah what a lovely story! I hope things continue to look up for you OP.

The fact that in such a distressing time for yourself you could still think of her, and ensure she got the recognition you felt she deserved, shows what a wonderful person you are.

MadeForThis · 22/12/2022 21:18

How lovely. You both sound like beautiful people xx

TakingTime2 · 22/12/2022 21:45

That's amazing op, it's heart warming to hear there are some amazing managers out there who genuinely care. Your words are so lovely Flowers

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