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Catastrophic state of the ambulance service: what's behind it?

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tulips27 · 20/12/2022 17:29

Seeing the shocking and upsetting thread where the OP has been waiting for over 24 hours for an ambulance for her relative who has a broken hip I want to ask what has cause this state of affairs? How can this be possible in our country? Can anyone offer any insight?

(Link to the thread for those who have not seen it: www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4701431-i-know-iabu-blatantly-using-this-for-traffic-emergency-situation-no-ambulance-still-and-need-advice )

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MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 20/12/2022 19:22

Travelbud · 20/12/2022 19:21

@MissLucyEyelesbarrow I just wanted to clarify you was speaking about covid vaccines before I replied.

These issues have been happening long before covid so that's not the reason for staff shortages.

Yes, Covid vaccines.

midgetastic · 20/12/2022 19:23

tulips27 · 20/12/2022 19:21

How does Germany fund their convalescent bed places? Can we emulate it?

Germany and France could be role models

But be careful in that it will still cost us more be it taxes or other types of insurance

fortheloveofcheesecake · 20/12/2022 19:31

OldTinHat · 20/12/2022 17:55

The only hospital in my county is 25% full of bed blockers. They've had to cancel all operations and appointments unless emergency or cancer related.

They've already spent £1m odd moving patients to other counties with spare beds.

I suspect you are near me. I had my surgery cancelled this week. Just an awful situation and our location makes us so isolated.

MarshaBradyo · 20/12/2022 19:32

If Labour were to run on French or German model they could probably do it. I don’t think the Tories have the same headroom in public perception

Not sure they would, and as pp said it’s more expensive

Would people be ok with higher fees?

There is an option to pay more atm anyway, ie private but it doesn’t cover all but could take strain off. In some countries it’s tax deductible I assume to shift burden

Venetiaparties · 20/12/2022 19:34

midgetastic · 20/12/2022 19:22

Well
Do what the older people did?
Willingly pay taxes for the NHS

Top tax band was 90 ( or 95?) percent after the Second World War

Tax rates are at historic lows

Yes you think you can't afford more - but neither could those people who are now old
But they did

Interesting that correlated with their lives getting better -

It is not post war Britain now ffs!

If you force people to pay 95% tax they will move to Dubai and we will see the biggest brain drain on the planet! Post war workers did exceptionally well investing in very cheap housing and were promised huge pensions! They had jobs FOR LIFE not for Christmas, and could live comfortably on just one salary. They had a quality of life most of us can only dream about!!

Many I know retired at 56!!! Factory workers.

TwinkleArse · 20/12/2022 19:37

Venetiaparties · 20/12/2022 19:19

19% are you serious?
Same for nurses?
Junior doctors?
Civil servants?
And all the rest?

Where exactly is the magic money tree?
It will bankrupt our country over night.

Firstly, we all know they’d settle for less, and secondly, there is a magic money tree when it suits the government.

If public sector pay hadn’t been frozen or had below inflation rises for years we wouldn’t be in this mess right now. Austerity was a political choice, not an economic necessity.

midgetastic · 20/12/2022 19:39

People could move after WW2 you know

All I am saying is that they were prepared to pay for others

And now it seems that the next generation would rather euthanise the elderly than treat them with the respect and dignity and cash that the elderly treated their elders

Verbena17 · 20/12/2022 19:40

Backed up hospital wards, affects A&E discharges to wards…..ambulances back up and have to wait.

Then there’s other community services having staff shortages and not enough funding - so like community mental health teams who don’t have emergency home teams etc and instead, ambulances get called when a crisis team would have been appropriate.

I think 12 hr shifts need reducing to 8 hr shifts.
8am-4pm
4pm - midnight
midnight-8am.
It would give a much healthier work/life balance for ambulance staff who are completely shattered.

Abra1t · 20/12/2022 19:41

tulips27 · 20/12/2022 17:46

Should relatives be made to collect elderly patients who are ready to be discharged but who cannot be sent home alone?

What happens if they have young children or will lose their jobs if they have to stay at home with the elderly discharged patients because there aren’t carers?
I know from family experience that if people are discharged without proper care in place they end up back in hospital again. And it’s not always care that family can give. I’m talking physio, occupational therapy, etc.

YomAsalYomBasal · 20/12/2022 19:43

It's not just adult social care that's broken, children's is too. One of the leading children's hospitals has at least 10 children ready to go home but with no care packages to support that due to lack of carers. Therefore they are bed blocking too. It's not a preserve of the elderly.

Penguinsaregreat · 20/12/2022 19:43

Some very good points raised.
The NHS does need an overhaul. I don’t think it’s feasible to keep providing the amount of services it does for free. I also think non emergency transport should be scrapped. People need to start paying for certain services.
Not sure if it’s been raised but there is also the fact that families are very different now. Take the family of an 80 year old. Their children (if they have them) will probably be having to work full time. They will not have the luxury of retiring at 55 or 60. They will loveyouu have a son and a dil who doesn’t work. So they are unable to care for their elderly parents the way the 80 year old cared for their parents.
Life is different now. We are expected to slog until we are 67. Not many women of previous generations did this.
Factor in higher divorce/separation rates and the elderly person doesn’t have a son in law or daughter in law to help shoulder the load.

nilsmousehammer · 20/12/2022 19:44

soundsofthesixties · 20/12/2022 19:13

Many years ago we had places called convalescent homes. These were for people who were recovering from serious illness and operations but didn't need a hospital bed, but weren't quite well enough to return home. Most people stayed for about a week just to recover their strength etc. How could we do this decades ago but not now.

Adding a layer like this would seem a really excellent idea for patients not needing active treatment but needing nursing observation, supervision and the kind of care community teams can offer while awaiting packages.

An elderly relative has been in and out of hospital in the past few months, and has had a catheter, central line and complex medication that could not be handled by anyone other than a medical team, so organising this highly time consuming and skilled care in the home has been time consuming to put it mildly. Staff and the organising has been brilliant for the most part, but it can't just be magicked up as fast as it's needed. And conditions change, and at every new twist in the story the meds and processes and tubes and infections all require a re jig. The reality of supporting complex health conditions in the older population is that this kind of nursing care is required, it's different to what support and care was available or needed forty years ago when many such patients wouldn't have made it this far, but systems haven't evolved to match the progress in care.

And yes, some decisions really need to be made regarding practicality and reasonability. It has been lovely that a relative's choice to be nursed at home has been possible- however we've been uncomfortably aware that the time and demand on resources has been much higher than it would have been in a nursing home providing 24 hour care, and there would have been less falls and less complications with that 24 hour care in a safer environment. It's a very difficult balance between people's wishes and right to choose and what can be afforded when it's a question of providing so much for so many.

Iizzyb · 20/12/2022 19:45

tulips27 · 20/12/2022 17:46

Should relatives be made to collect elderly patients who are ready to be discharged but who cannot be sent home alone?

How does that work? When DM had a stroke she bed blocked for over a week whilst they waited for a care package of 4x visits per day. I'm a lone parent, I have DS who was 8 at the time. We live close by but it's a drive. I have a very busy job. I was prepared to cover 2 of those visits each day (we were desperate to get her home) but thank goodness a company came through & offered to cover 4 visits per day & she was discharged.

Thank goodness for those carers. A year on & dm is doing really well. I am wrecked. Heaven only knows what state I would be in if I had had to cover teatime & bedtime 7 days a week. DS is pretty good too but it's taken A LOT to get him to that point.

It sounds like an easy answer. It absolutely isn't.

Travelbud · 20/12/2022 19:45

midgetastic · 20/12/2022 19:39

People could move after WW2 you know

All I am saying is that they were prepared to pay for others

And now it seems that the next generation would rather euthanise the elderly than treat them with the respect and dignity and cash that the elderly treated their elders

This isn't fair. Part of the reason the elderly are now living longer is because treatment is MORE advance since WW2. We do not have the inferstructure for this.

People are now having pacemakers at 94 years old. Staff are needed to look after people who have undergone surgery.

Bobbybobbins · 20/12/2022 19:46

My DFIL was in a convalescent type of community hospital recently - it was perfect for what he needed and more of them would add so much to getting patients back on their feet. It meant when he did get home he didn't need any additional support.

FixTheBone · 20/12/2022 19:46

Venetiaparties · 20/12/2022 19:19

19% are you serious?
Same for nurses?
Junior doctors?
Civil servants?
And all the rest?

Where exactly is the magic money tree?
It will bankrupt our country over night.

The £65bn kwarteng jizzed up the wall in one day would have covered it for 5 years.

So would not going through with brexit.

Travelbud · 20/12/2022 19:47

Penguinsaregreat · 20/12/2022 19:43

Some very good points raised.
The NHS does need an overhaul. I don’t think it’s feasible to keep providing the amount of services it does for free. I also think non emergency transport should be scrapped. People need to start paying for certain services.
Not sure if it’s been raised but there is also the fact that families are very different now. Take the family of an 80 year old. Their children (if they have them) will probably be having to work full time. They will not have the luxury of retiring at 55 or 60. They will loveyouu have a son and a dil who doesn’t work. So they are unable to care for their elderly parents the way the 80 year old cared for their parents.
Life is different now. We are expected to slog until we are 67. Not many women of previous generations did this.
Factor in higher divorce/separation rates and the elderly person doesn’t have a son in law or daughter in law to help shoulder the load.

Excellent points!!

watingroom2 · 20/12/2022 19:47

I think the underfunding has made it worse in the last 12 years. There is a move to privatise by making the system collapse

I think the labour party are too far right - and not left enough - but the press crucified the first left policies (as it does not suit those in power). They started the underfunding - and carving up the systems for profit - Blair was right wing..

People keep voting for more of the same - there is no 'balance in politics' the 'left' vote is massively split but the system - puts left against right and really we need shades between

People are making profit from care - so the people doing the care are squashed by pointless paperwork for very little money - would you want to wipe sh*te for minimum wage and deal with adults who have no idea what is going on are aggressive and unpleasant to be around - as that is what a lot of old people in care area like

AWOL66 · 20/12/2022 19:51

midgetastic · 20/12/2022 18:58

Everyone who gets any life saving nhs treatment is living outside of the natural order

Be then 90 or 9 years old

We could save a fortune if we didn't treat self inflicted illnesses also but I think refusing to treat fat people is as bad a refusing to treat elderly

My comment's been misunderstood by people on here. I'm not saying don't treat people with self inflicted illnesses or the elderly!!!

I smoked for years and am picturing MYSELF old and not being able to die naturally when the time comes. My point is we have an unhealthy attitude to keeping very ill elderly people alive even when THEY want to die (I know several people who had this experience where for legal reasons they kept being given medicine and resusitated against their wishes etc despite it being in their best interests to pass away peacefully in their sleep).

Also we go all out spending millions trying to stop anyone getting ill with anti smoking campaigns as an example without much thought put into the fact if people are living decades longer the NHS is then stretched to help those elderly, young and all those inbetween who want to live. The argument smokers use up more NHS resources than non smokers when ill was discredited as it was proven it was outweighed by the anount of tax they'd paid over the years. My point being just let people smoke if they want to smoke and of course it's fine if they don't - we just need some sort of balance.

My post was actually coming from a place of sympathy for those like the Mumsnetter's aunty who needs an ambulance and should be able to get one immediatley as well as my gran who doesn't want to be in and out of hospital a million times a year feeling miserable suffering from paranoia and being completely immobile.

MyBabyLaura · 20/12/2022 19:52

tulips27 · 20/12/2022 17:46

Should relatives be made to collect elderly patients who are ready to be discharged but who cannot be sent home alone?

So you're contacted at work to come collect your elderly infirm relative who you don't get along with. They can't be discharged to their own home as unsafe to be left alone at all and they're being discharged into your care if you like it or not. Do you take them to their own home and leave them there to die? Let's say you have no conscience, they die, does that make you guilty of manslaughter? Prison? Lose your job, your own family evicted, now homeless, no social housing so what now? And how to put your life back together when you're released.

Or do you take the elderly infirm relative back to your home, which is now overcrowded because you didn't have a spare room, so relative is on the sofa. Kids have nowhere to play and have to stay quiet, you're stressed trying to make it work and keep everyone happy, run ragged.

But it doesn't work because you've lost you job now you're a full time carer earning £60/wk (ish) so your family is struggling to make ends meet, no luxuries and no fun, maybe no heating. You become depressed because your relative who you don't get along with isn't even grateful and is ever more demanding. No family life you've no time, no sex life you're too knackered, partner resentful of doing all housework and childcare when they're not at work. Your family breaks up, now you're facing eviction because you can't pay the bills or work and awaiting non-existent mental health care. You lose your kids who go live with your ex because you can't house them.

Your kids are messed up for life because they were emotionally neglected, have a strained relationship with their parents now, trauma from being homeless, anger issues from seeing the way elderly relative monopolised all the time and spoke to their parent/carer like shit, not doing well at school so won't get a good job, life of poverty. The cycle continues.

You can't force people to become carers, it's kicking the can down the road. There's lots of reasons why people can't do it the above is just an example and why the resulting mess would mean more lives being ruined and cost government more in the long run and the elderly people still ends up in a care home.

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 20/12/2022 19:52

This isn't fair. Part of the reason the elderly are now living longer is because treatment is MORE advance since WW2. We do not have the inferstructure for this

The total number of years of ill-health that people experience has not changed; they are just experiencing them later in life (on average).

People living longer does make some difference to the costs of managing long-term conditions - if you have diabetes for 40 years, instead of 20, for example, you are clearly going to need more medication and have more check ups. But this is mainly outpatient and primary (GP) care, rather than hospital or care home beds.

AWOL66 · 20/12/2022 19:57

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 20/12/2022 19:02

Can we please stop blaming older people for being old? I agree that people should not be kept alive against their own wishes. However, people who live to very old age actually spent fewer years in serious ill-health (on average) than people who die younger. On the whole, we have succeeded in extending average lifespan without extending years of poor health - though of course there are individual exceptions.

Everyone, no matter how old they are when they die, cost a lot of money (on average) in their last year of life. This is true when people die younger too.

I'm not blaming people for getting old. My comment's been misunderstood completely. In fact I'm in support of the elderly 100 per cent. I've replied to another Mumsnetter explaining what I meant in detail.

Lemonyfuckit · 20/12/2022 19:58

Kiwirose · 20/12/2022 17:37

Really? Where have you been? Social care is broken which means we can't get patients out of hospital. If we can't get patients out of hospital we can't get patients into hospital either. If we can't get patients in to hospital they are stacked in ambulances not being off loaded. If ambulances can't offload their patients they can't get new ones.

That is without the staff shortages throughout the NHS - again if there are no ambulance drivers then patients will have to wait. People (Drs and nurses) are leaving faster than they are joining the profession.

What has caused it? Massive underfunding. Reducing the numbers of acute hospital beds in the NHS. Not paying nursing homes properly. The devaluing pound so no one wants to work here anymore. Brexit. Not paying carers and NHS staff properly. Not valuing NHS staff.

What else do you want to know?

100% this. Cheers Tories.

JenniferBooth · 20/12/2022 20:02

You cant force someone to care. That would be coercive control which is illegal now. And if you do do the caring what happens after the person you are caring for dies. You are down at the Job Centre and being treated like you have been a lazy shirker for the last however many years Fuck that

EmmaAgain22 · 20/12/2022 20:24

AWOL66 · 20/12/2022 18:49

We are forcing the elderly to live way past the age they'd NATURALLY live to and the already over stretched NHS can't cope.
My 96 year old gran is suffering from paranoia and dementia, has lost the physical ability to stand up without fainting and is being given antibiotics every 5 mins to keep her alive when she says she wants to die. She should be allowed to pass away peacefully and with dignity in her sleep.

People were lectured "don't smoke" and viewed as selfish when they got cancer from it but guess what people who quit or didn't ever have bad habits are living 10-20 years longer.
Today I read dry shampoo causes cancer so avoid it. Why? So we can live to 100 when our mind's garbled and we have no independence.

agree

re your gran, doesn't someone have PoA to refuse antibiotics etc?