So my friend has changed so much in the last year , I loved spending time with her but last time I left I was genuinely in tears , she never knew this.
she spent half the evening saying I should be doing better in my career and I should push myself more and she doesn’t know how I do the same job for so long , and going on about how successful she is - she mentions her wage every time I see her (like I forget or something ) and saying do I just wanna do the same job for the rest of my life .
im happy in my job (it’s good pay but it’s no where near the huge massive overpayment she gets for her role- can’t expand too much on that as outing ) but I would never speak to my friend like this , she literally has no empathy for anything ? She will rarely ask how you are and just goes on literally how fantastic she is and how all these companies are begging her to work for them .
I never used to leave feeling this crap , I hate to throw this word around but she’s turned into a huge narcissist, if I spoke to her about it she would just say I’m too sensitive (I’m not ) but the way she’s become makes me not wanna spend time with her .
I suppose I’m asking has anyone else had people in their life just change like this ? And what did you do ?