Anyone awake?

[nighhtwatch]

Wondered if anyone was up to talk

I'm definitely in the never again moment
Didn't want to date but I opened myself up again because I felt it was right and yeah.. huge mistake

I’m sorry OP. You were brave to put yourself out there and were betrayed by this charlatan.
But I promise you will be ok, time is a healer and you will one day ( probably sooner than you think) look back and realise what a poor excuse for a human he was and how you deserve so much better.

You shouldn't feel like the idiot here. This is all about his character, not yours.
Please don't t punish yourself, you are brave and strong. He's the coward.
You put your trust and heart into someone who wasn't respectful enough to hold them, and that isn't your fault.
We can't always be right in who we love, but we can learn and grow and then move on to bigger and better loves. Although it does f feel like it right now, this will hurt less in time. You will become stronger and he will become more irrelevant, just another asshole to add to the ever growing pile of men that have no respect for women!
In the meantime be kind to yourself, do whatever it is the provides you comfort. Go out with girlfriends, have baths, read books, go to a spa, take yourself out on dates, whatever it is that you enjoy! Treat yourself and also make sure you talk talk talk about how your feeling. Remember you did nothing wrong!!!

Hi all, shall I makes us all some tea and toast and we can put the world to rights?

Don't feel like an idiot for something you have no responsibility for or could control. You've been unlucky to meet an arsehole, and there are way too many arseholes out there. Count yourself lucky you've found out the truth in only a few months.

It's going to hurt, and hurt badly for a while but information is power, and you now know who he is. Block him and block his g/f or partner, the last thing you want is to get sucked into their relationship issues.

This WILL pass and you'll come out stronger.

💐

I had to get up at 3am and turn the heating on. My house was 6 degrees and despite wearing two pairs of pyjamas bottoms, two tops and a hoodie I was too cold to sleep. Sod the cost.

Ooh yes please

I was awake at 4.30 as dh woke me up going to work, stumbling round the bedroom.
I have teacakes I could toast????

Sorry I'm a bit late but tea, coffee, toast and few bacon rolls on their way - be careful when the tea comes out of your key board it's hot.

Just reading back the messages, thank you

@garlictwist oh no! That sounds brutal. I went to bed in my dressing gown! Hope you managed to get warm.