I'm in my late 20s, and I would say of average-ish to the plain end of the scale in terms of looks - never bothered me and always had boyfriends etc. I currently have a long term partner who I'm extremely happy with. I've made some new friends recently and been going out with them, and noticed that most of the women (some of them are very attractive) get so much attention when out and I've started to realise that this never happens to me. I'm torn between being relieved (it's not something that I particularly want) but also a little bit hurt / concerned I'm a lot less attractive than I thought I was! I know this is a bit silly but just wondering others thoughts on this.