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Is it too early to worry about dyslexia?

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Sanamarin · 02/12/2022 10:07

DD turned 5 in Oct and started Reception in Sept. She's been doing phonics since she was 3 and has a great phonic awareness. She loves writing, for instance the other day they learned at school 'we' so she came home and wrote: 'we hav a cat' which I thought was good. She's been writing her name for a long time.

If I ask her how do you spell pond...she'll go: p-o-n-d. And do on.

She is a fast learner usually, she learned all the sight words, about 25 so far (push, pull, put, the, and, I etc.)

HOWEVER, she finds reading very frustrating. She comes home with books that have simple Cvc words ...and all she does is segmenting and blending. We read every day for 10-15 mins and she doesn't seem to get past the segmenting of even the simplest words. I mean she's been writing 'cat' for ages but when it comes in a book she goes c-a-t. Plus half way through the book she gets really frustrated, I suspect the graphemes start jumbling up and she starts mis-reading. Then she says she doesn't want to do it. I feel there is no progress there. She gets very emotional and hates it.

Plus the pace is very slow. It takes her quite a bit to read 'Dad sat in it'.

There is a strong genetic link from her fathers side to dyslexia and I have been worrying about it for quite a while so I guess I might be reading into it a bit too much. Her dad is an avid reader now, but his spelling is very poor.

Can anyone relate to this?

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MyDogsANightmare · 02/12/2022 23:49

Sanamarin · 02/12/2022 20:57

@Thurst Thank you for your advice. Can I ask you what signs did your DD show at 18 months that made you think she might be dyslexic?

DD didn't show any, or maybe I wasn't aware of the signs, until she started school.

*sorry forgot to quote

MyDogsANightmare · 02/12/2022 23:49

And name change clearly

Mentallyillfrienhomless · 03/12/2022 07:32

@gogohmm

I'm not diagnosed but I think I'm the same. When I was 3 the words suddenly made sense of a ladybird book my mum was reading to me.
Then i just read and was always noted as a very good reader with higher than age and also vocab.
Spellings, no.

Had I been taught,how I now teach DD 2 I am sure I would be a good speller!
With DD 2 we broke words down using foam letter and magnet board into root words, and adding ING and prefixes and suffixes.
Using these letter's embed it into her and made sense. It had context to see the work eg interest,then add ed , or did, or ING and then combing it all.

We used mnemonic for early spelling with huge success like oh u lucky duck, could,would, should. Because/beautiful.
Her spelling shot up.

However she's fairly solid now but is a slow reader, and doesn't write much so she doesn't get that word exposure.

Has anyone thrust phonics onto me they would have made it Seem reading is so much more complicated than it needs to be and would have turned me off reading, making it seem like this hugely complicated thing.
It doesn't suit my brain. DD 1 did under it and did very well with it but I couldn't help her with it!
Dd2 it was a barrier and it makes me so so cross that we are saddled with it and schools don't try anything else

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