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What to do when spending Christmas evening alone?

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Passthecheeseboard · 01/12/2022 22:50

So for the first time, this year I will be spending Christmas evening alone.

DH will be at home during the day but starts work at 5pm, so will I will be making an early Christmas dinner, MIL will be round for dinner (she’s not the easiest to be around 😬) , we will open presents, have dinner, maybe a Christmas film and a card game, and then DH will be taking MIL home before he goes to work and I will be on my own for the remainder of the evening. So any ideas on how I can spend Christmas evening? Anyone else spending Christmas alone? If so how are you going to spend it?

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Furries · 02/12/2022 03:20

Over the next few weeks, maybe keep an eye out for films/programmes to download/save.

make sure you have food left over from main meal to make an epic sandwich with in the evening.

Make sure you’ve got a large bag of your favourite crisps/popcorn etc.

pop the heating/electric blanket on - anything to warm up your pjs before getting into them.

Settle back and just enjoy a bit of you time. There is nothing wrong, and absolutely everything right, with making the most of you time.

Kapalika · 02/12/2022 03:22

Passthecheeseboard · 02/12/2022 00:25

I know right! 🤣

Last Christmas I was completely exhausted with her, she always insists on us doing Christmas dinner early too (and I hate an early dinner!) as she ‘gets tired’ 🤨 … and then she proceeds to stay till the early hours of the morning. She’s also super draining, like one of those people that just sucks all the positivity and energy out of the room. I really struggle to tolerate her and I get on with most people 😬 … last time she complained I was peeling the potatoes wrong too, like how rude is that??! 😮

She sounds a bit like my mum! Moving swiftly on...
I think I would have a shower using all the new posh stuff I've asked for, moisture everywhere, new pjs and clean sheets, cosy either on the sofa or in bed with a tray of cheese and biscuits or whatever is your preference. Then watch stand up comedy. Some booze if you drink. I would entice my cat with treats so she sits with me too.
I live with 2 teens boys who will be gaming and husband who will be downstairs watching something historical. I may as well be alone!
I'm totally overthinking this. Enjoy!

Tangerineartichoke · 02/12/2022 03:31

My DH works for the NHS and is rarely home for Christmas day. We do Christmas when he is home. I treat the day itself as my day. In the past I have been on lovely christmas day walks, crafting, jigsaw or reading in the afternoon followed by a relaxing evening of self indulgence and a good movie. I did plan myself a cheese board and port evening last year must do that again.

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LovedFedAndNoonesDead · 02/12/2022 03:34

For me it would be the 4 ‘Bs’ - bubbles, bath, book & bed!!

Long hot soak in the bath with whatever bubbles or additive you like, face/hair masks if you’re into that sort of thing (I’m not) and a bottle of bubbles (size of your choosing), enjoy a soak and start reading that new book you’ve been looking forward to; once out, climb into a nice, warm from electric blanket/hot water bottle, bed with clean sheets and snuggle down to a quiet hour with my book before dozing off to sleep.

Then I come back to reality as a mum of 3 year old twins and realise it will probably end up being a night of refereeing who’s got what, grabbing a slice of toast and flopping into bed exhausted, with the twins at 8pm!!

Passthecheeseboard · 02/12/2022 13:23

Loving these ideas! Thanks guys 🙂

Must admit I did feel a bit sad to start with about being on my own in the evening but there sure is some perks to it too.

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