Hi I just wanted people's
thoughts.
So my daughter
was in a dv relationship
a couple of years ago tjat done with but incase it's relevant.
She met another guy very
soon after.
He's not a bad person.
Well at least
i don't think 🤔
he has autism again incase relevant.
He does not live with my daughter
but is there alot.
He has baths
there. Eats there.
Snacks
drinks etc.
He has his own money but can't manage it well it just gos of crap pretty fast . Although he might give my daughter
the (odd) 5 or 10 pounds
or pay for something
he put in the food shopping basket.
But he's costing her much more than he's actually
giving. I have told her over , and she needs to tell him that she can't afford
to do it .
She now can't afford to get her child to school. I can easily
put money into her account. But part of Me thinks I'm kind of enabling him to ponce of her and not giving her a reason to put her foot down .
I sent him a message and said you need to start giving her money towards
gas electricity food . She can't
afford to keep you .
He's now got the hump.
So he's happy to keep taking from her but not happy to pay his way.
So is this a worrying relationship?
Sorry if it's a bit of a ramble I'm just a bit
frustrated.