Fancy him but no idea how to talk to him

[cassiatwenty]

I go to the store and there is someone I fancy. He is always pleasant, and it seems there's chemistry on both ends.

However, how do you take it a bit further? Just friendly like. I have ran out of ideas what to chit-chat about, but I feel he's genuinely interested. So right now a bit too formal.

Any ideas? I'm thinking about this, but it'll go nowhere without your sage advice

Jesus wept, have my nans joined MN?

Ask if he fancies a drink OP. Nothing to lose and not at all desperate. It's 2022!

Does he work at this store?
I'd never approach someone with the suggestion of a date while they're working, I imagine we'd all be up in arms if a woman posted that a man hit on her while she was just doing her job.

Oooh it best not be my corner shop man OP 🤣 he's my guilty pleasure!

Is it a store you can happily not use again if you feel embarrassed? If so go for it

@Chikapu, yes, a bit miffed about power imbalance thing. i fancy him but it's his job to be pleasant.

but i didn't choose to fancy him! should probably just walk away and be fair about it

@Nottodaysausage Blonde hair and blue eyes? Cheeky smile? 😋

@pinkfondu would that be wrong? hahah