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How are you cutting back this Christmas?

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SnoopLabbyLab · 24/11/2022 09:15

We need to make Christmas thriftier this year. In part because our everyday expenses have increased but also because I’ve realised that over the past few years we’ve crept into the mindset of spending needless money, to create the ‘perfect’ Christmas. We are lucky that we can choose where to make cut backs and hopefully still have a lovely day.

Our main cut back will be on going out expenses. No meals out until a gastropub lunch on NYD. We have a couple of days out planned (tickets to a show bought for us as a gift and a free London museum) and will enjoy something from a street food market nearby rather than eating at a restaurant. We’d also normally meet friends for Christmas meals and trips out, but are having board game evenings at home instead, which everyone seems happy to do. We have tickets to a local village panto, not the big one in town.

I’m avoiding ‘spendy’ places like Christmas markets in the run up. Instead, we will do walks with friends and a couple of special church services and singing around the village tree.

Presents are less this year- a couple of things the kids have asked for, not loads of stocking fillers.

No new Christmas clothes, crockery, decorations or scatter cushions. Just not needed. Things like crackers will be smaller tokens, not ‘luxury’ nonsense. I’m putting the savings from that towards a food bank donation.

To be honest, I’m a bit embarrassed it’s taken a national cost of living crisis to make me realise how much I’d frittered away. But I’m hoping this will be the first of many thriftier Christmases, about people and our community, not stuff.

Anyone else cutting back? If so, how?

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user1471538283 · 03/12/2022 08:56

I've been doing this for years because it makes me feel queasy the amount of money I've spent on stuff.

I'm buying some gifts and some nice food. I'm eating out a few times. I'm paying for a nice meal as a gift for some of my family after christmas. But I refuse to have that stressed sick feeling of trying to find the money to spend too much.

We are also moving soon so I need to save.

WonderfulCounsellors · 03/12/2022 09:40

Exactly what I have always done

Local town centre Christmas light switch on
Wreath made from greenery from the garden and I’m making a couple for friends this year
Buy couple of dozen pairs of socks for local homeless shelter, have already dropped off a load of selection boxes
Made a Christmas window display for a friends shop
Midnight mass
Help do Christmas flowers at church
Give selection boxes to neighbours children
Walk on Boxing Day through local woodland
I used to go carol singing but I’m not in a choir currently
Cook a traditional Christmas dinner
Boxing Day buffet

I may not go to Church so much these days but was raised as a Christian so have never gone in for the commercial side. I have helped cook and do Christmas food at a food project in the past and helped at a present scheme.

maddy68 · 03/12/2022 09:51

Only buying for children. No adult presents (except for my mum ) so no siblings

Fewer bits for the Christmas buffet meal

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gianfrancogorgonzola · 03/12/2022 09:59

We are pretty low key anyway. I read the Christmas presents thread the other day and couldn’t believe it!! I would HATE to buy that much for my children both down to initial costs and then storing it all.

Mine are getting AirPods (still expensive I know) and a stocking with choc, socks, satsumas, couple of toiletries each. Lunch will be a roast with a few extra veg. we will have a lovely day with a walk, Christmas songs on, some tv.

Allsnotwell · 03/12/2022 10:07

I have also done this for years. Much to the big spenders surprise - kids enjoy Christmas all the same. they’ve had secondhand gifts - warm blankets, thermal underwear etc for years - stuff the need and use.

Now that people are jumping on the band wagon I’m wondering if those cheap Tesco crackers will still be available when I go? Or if the shops will rise the prices on the cheaper end as that’s what people are buying?

GUARDIAN1 · 05/12/2022 08:44

We've been reasonably thrifty at Christmas for a long time but this year have seriously cut back on the gifts for adults in the family. I've bought for grandchildren. My daughter and granddaughter will be with me on Christmas day, so have got daughter a couple of bits she actually needs, so granddaughter can see her opening them. I've bought for my mum but no other adult family members.

As there will only be 3 of us for Christmas lunch I'm going to cook a large chicken rather than turkey. On boxing day I'll use some of the leftover chicken to make 'special' fried rice for dinner. The rest will make chicken and vegetable soup. We normally have 'picky bits' on Christmas eve, and will still do that, but reduce the number of different items, eg 2 cheeses instead of 5, 1 pate instead of 2.

fussychica · 05/12/2022 09:00

We've agreed no presents this year except a small token one, under a tenner, as all adults. Will make an additional donation to the local food bank instead.
Won't be back in UK until 18th Dec so its going to be a big shop on 19/20. Might get a turkey crown might not.
Will probably go to church on Xmas eve, as usual. Lots of quizzing, watching sport and trying to keep warm!

ImAvingOops · 05/12/2022 09:22

Am spending less on presents - my kids are adults now, bar one, with the ability to buy themselves whatever they want, so I've reduced what I buy them. Obviously they still get something nice, but not hundreds of pound worth of nice, like when they were younger.
Aldo not going mad with the Christmas food prep - shops will be open the day after Boxing Day and I'm happy to do a food shop then. In previous years I've bought excessive amounts of sweets and drinks and ended up not using them up for ages or giving them away.

Not from a cost perspective but I'm paring down Christmas dinner to the stuff that everyone actually eats. This is because I spend too much time cooking and everyone is too full up on Quality Street to eat it!

emilydickinsonscat · 05/12/2022 18:50

I wouldn't say I'm cutting back this year personally as I come from a big family who have always been into sustainability and anti-waste, so we've always been sensible with presents and food (still having a great time though!)
I work for a company which does a lot of its turnover at this time of the year, and I can see Christmas being a non-event for us sales wise which means potential cut-backs and job losses next year, which is very sad.

NextPrimeMinister · 05/12/2022 19:58

Am not getting all the food, we don't host beyond xmas day / boxing day so am refusing to buy any extra food apart for those days.

No Bailey's either. I have 1 gl

NextPrimeMinister · 05/12/2022 19:59

Ass and it then stays in the fridge til April.

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