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oh the joys of early parenthood
we were both STEM . our eldest (this is 20 plus years ago) wanted to do law . Was really into it during his teens , went on extracurricular activities etc. we were fine with this..it’s a good career, hard to get into , paid well (then), at 11th hour he declared he wanted to do history at degree level. We thought to ourselves- wtf do you do with history degree and we’re really concerned. But we know it was his decison, his student debt etc- we had no influence AT ALL . All our work on developing love of science and telling them what opportunities a STEM degree would give them, when they were younger, was pissing in the wind 🤣🤣🤷🏼♀️. I think we’d already realised that long before that point anyway,
but ..he got a grad job on milk round. And at age of late 20s is doing extremely well, outstripping my final salary when I retired 3 years ago, and I was in a pretty senior role in pharma industry. It’s not a job I knew existed , not him till he applied for it as it sounded interesting.
All a parent can do is set their kids up to succeed in whatever decision their kid makes on their own future career. Offer advice and guidance. Provide financial and practical support if it involves extracurricular activities at school. But be prepared that kid will change their mind at any point, or , even more commonly, not have foggiest idea what they want to do until they find a job they like after graduating.
imho, let your small kids explore wanting to be a bin man, firefighter, shop assistant, cleaner …it helps them develop ideas on the notion of work …it doesn’t mean that it’s what they’ll do..it’s just playing out roles that they can relate to as they can see the job being done. With all respect watching Mum or dad sat in front of a computer typing away in their high powered cab is less exciting to a 5 year old than getting to drive a big lorry and lift bins in and out.