Single parents/relocation

[Jewel7]

Just pondering. Recently separated. Held back by dh not wanting the same things as me in life. Amongst other things. I don’t live far from where I grew up within 10 miles. I always envisaged a nicer area for my children. I didn’t want to live in the same little patch forever. I am a student so need to consider my studies. I wouldn’t need to move 100’s of miles to make a difference. My family are no longer local. My friends are quite spread out. Just wondering if any single parents have braved a change of area alone?

The key question in this is access / contact with the father. If he is only going to be an EOW type, with no day to day input to school runs, activities, general childcare, and your life will be practically, financially etc improved by moving, then do it. However, if he intends (and will) do something like 50/50 care or be involved on a much more regular basis, then please don't sacrifice that. I am an SP and due to circumstances live far from ex. His contact hasn't reduced as a result because it was already crap, but it has made it more tiresome and expensive.