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Is this Ok from GP?

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OldPhoto · 17/11/2022 17:36

I'm not sure what I was expecting and I understand they don't have very long per patient, but this doesn't seem satisfactory to me. I wonder if this is normal and all you can expect from the NHS or whether something was awry here.

I'm early 50s, have never had any problems at all with my MH, but recently have been struggling following a series of traumatic events. Concerns have been raised at work re my lack of focus (previously very contientious) and I'm tearful every time any one is kind to me.

I went to GP at my boss' suggestion/request. He asked if I'd had counselling, I have but didn't find it particularly helpful. He laughed, didn't try to establish why it wasn't helpful. (Imo counsellor wasn't very good and it was probably too early). Asked if I was eating and sleeping (yes) and prescribed anti depressants, "if you want some time off you can have a week without a certificate". I don't know if I do want time off, I'd have liked some advice, but he said it's up to me.

Didn't ask anything about my wider health or menopause, which I know can lead to these symptoms.

On my way home he called to ask if I was having "weird thoughts". I assume he meant suicidal thoughts, I'm not.

I'm not someone who bothers the doctor often, maybe once a decade. Should he have been more thorough or is the outcome what anyone would have done?

I'm kicking myself because I meant to mention menopause myself, but in my mind fog I forgot. I don't actually have any menopause symptoms except the shaky MH (which could well have other causes) but I'm of an age where it must surely happen soon.

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JMAngel1 · 17/11/2022 17:37

I would rebook an appointment and ask about HRT instead of ADs.

Nothingbuttheglory · 17/11/2022 17:39

Sounds like that GP knows absolutely nothing about caring for people who may be struggling with their mental health. I would write a list of all the symptoms bothering you (keep it as a note on your phone?) and go back, but see someone else.

PandaOrLion · 17/11/2022 17:39

Sounds standard for a MH appt. I’d make another to talk about menopause and find a therapist (rather than a counsellor) who you click with.

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DogInATent · 17/11/2022 17:40

When was your last NHS Health Check with blood checks, general health checks, etc?

www.nhs.uk/conditions/nhs-health-check/what-is-an-nhs-health-check-new/

AspenBirch · 17/11/2022 17:43

Pretty standard shite care from GP's.
Dont take the anti depressants. Ask to see a diff GP and ask about HRT.

DetoxedAlcoholic · 17/11/2022 17:48

This does not sound like a standard MH appointment for the poster that said that! The GP should have discussed the therapy more with you and absolutely not asked about "weird stuff" on the phone. And what the actual fuck anyway, suicidal thoughts would not be referred to in those terms.

Go back, see another GP and address both the MH and the HRT. Sorry you're going through this OP. Please do take time for yourself, I would suggest taking the week off.

OldPhoto · 17/11/2022 18:07

I'm reluctant to take ADs, but OTOH if they can help me get my spark back. He didn't talk at all about how/when to take them or anything to look out for re side affects. Should he have?

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FurryFace22 · 17/11/2022 19:26

OldPhoto · 17/11/2022 18:07

I'm reluctant to take ADs, but OTOH if they can help me get my spark back. He didn't talk at all about how/when to take them or anything to look out for re side affects. Should he have?

Doesn't sound great op- you should be monitored and have regular reviews when you first start them too. Did he mention that?

OldPhoto · 17/11/2022 21:30

Yes, he did ask me to book an appointment in 2 weeks, although I couldn't actually get one for three.

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BakedRightOff · 17/11/2022 21:46

That’s really shit. I was having a hard time with work about 18 months ago. I am (was) a senior director and blew the whistle - a whole shit storm erupted. I spoke to the GP who signed me off for an initial 2 weeks, sent me a link to free online resources about managing stress etc. but more importantly just listened. He also asked about my mental health otherwise, if I had access to counselling via any other means and just sounded sympathetic so I didn’t feel like it was made up or I shouldn’t have contacted them.

This GP sounds shocking, laughing that counselling didn’t work?!

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