If you’ve ever gone though a rough patch with your dh, how did you get things good again !?

[Wolfscarf]

just looking for some ideas

Spent more time together, made a point of noticing the good things about him (rather than focusing on the negative) and showed each other more appreciation for what we each do. I guess it depends on what the problems are though. In my case no one was particularly doing anything wrong but we’d stopped appreciating each other and started getting annoyed at each other a lot. We had to find our way back to a friendship first because it felt like that had been lost somewhere along the way.

Thanks for her reply
we just had a lot to deal with outside the marriage and I’ve become quite a stressful person and been less fun than I usually am

Counselling. Being honest and open. Always being appreciative of each other and making big efforts to do things together .

Hello we had similar. For us it was time, he did a big outdoors project with friends, and I changed how I reacted to him and changed job. I think pp is right, see what you can appreciate and comment on that.
read some of the relationship threads on here and that helps you appreciate what you have!

Lots of talking and then after about 3 months of that we went on a cruise.