Hello MN, I need help.
I am changing shift patterns at work and going onto the night shift, due to my shift pattern I’ll be working essentially a week of nights and then a WHOLE WEEK OFF.
I currently am at home with my 2 year old every day, school run with 5 year old and work 5 evenings a weeks from once DP is home, I work from 5pm until midnight.
DD will also be going to nursery x 2 FULL DAYS on my week off.
Now, I am going to have a whole week of evenings, every other week, at home. And TWO WHOLE DAYS (bar nursery pick up and DS school run) to myself.
I plan on having tea as a family and then getting the kids to bed before I head out to night shift, I can’t wait to do this, I miss it so much. It seems like such a treat to eat dinner with my kids and tuck them into bed.
But what do I do on my two days with no kids? My evenings every other week?
What would you do?
Hit me with anything and everything. I am open to all suggestions.
I have worked these shifts for the benefit of my family and now is the time to do something for me. But, I have lost myself a little in the process, I don’t know what I like or want much anymore.
Help me!