I'm going out with a group on Friday. One man works near me but lives quite a step away. We're going out close to where I live.
He is going to come here after work rather than going home and we'll have something to eat (pizza or similar) then go and meet friends at the venue. I've said he can stay here afterwards.
I've know him quite a long time, definitely just friends, but I was married for quite a lot of that time and he's had various partners. Although my friend he was actually very good to both me and DH in DH's final illness.
Both of us have "casually" referenced sleeping arrangements making it clear the expectation is he'll be on the sofa, but we'll have been drinking etc etc.
I did originally expect that adult DS1 would be here, but now he won't.
Anyway, he's a perfectly nice man and attractive. I've never noticed that until recently, but even so, I'd hate to mess up the friendship group we're part of. In any case he's never given any indication he finds me attractive.
Hopefully intentions are clear, but I know I get all touchy feely when I've had a drink! And so does he TBH.