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I’ve actually left the house and been for a walk - agoraphobia

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iveonlygoneandcompletedit · 08/11/2022 14:57

Even this morning I would never have believed that possible .

I weigh 23 stone, I’m extremely anxious all the time and hardly ever go out unless I have to - it’s taken complete crisis point to get appropriate referrals in situ . I am terrified of going for a walk, I worry I’m going to collapse if I try, I hate feeling my heart rate increase (health anxiety around heart disease) .

Honestly my daily steps for a year have averaged at 1-2000 .

I was referred for 1-1 befriending two weeks ago, and befriender asked me if we could go for a long walk today .

I’ve only gone and done three miles . 8000 steps . I forgot I was anxious and focused only on one foot in front of the other . It rained and I even enjoyed that, I’ve forgotten what rain and stuff is like hiding indoors for so long .

Yes I am knackered, yes my heart was pounding, yes I was sweating and puffing my way round and even half jokingly asked my support worker if I could cheat and get a taxi back (one look at her face told me no!) but I’ve totally done it, and going back next week (it’s a walking group) .

I am hugely, hugely delighted !

OP posts:
Fenneloup · 08/11/2022 14:59

That's bloody wonderful! Congratulations 🎊

GNR2022 · 08/11/2022 14:59

3 miles is such a long walk when you’ve not done much, bloody well done you!! You’ll be aching tomorrow 😃😃😃

ErrolTheDragon · 08/11/2022 14:59

Oh wow, that's great! Well done!

mamabear715 · 08/11/2022 15:00

Amazing! Huge congratulations! :-)

nancyglancey · 08/11/2022 15:00

Wonderful! Be proud Flowers

BananaFluff · 08/11/2022 15:00

I am very pleased for you OP

mothertrucking · 08/11/2022 15:00

That it amazing!!! Well done

Bourbanbiscuit · 08/11/2022 15:00

Well done, you should be so proud, that's the hardest one done. Keep on, you're on the way

Flippanty · 08/11/2022 15:00

Brilliant OP, well done!! 3 miles is a trek for your first time out, you’ve done amazingly well!

BricksHome · 08/11/2022 15:01

Brilliant news! Well done

Hewbean · 08/11/2022 15:01

❤️🥳🍂😀🌟well done OP. What progress! You must be so chuffed.

ErrolTheDragon · 08/11/2022 15:03

Don't forget if your muscles feel sore at all, that's a sign they've been working and will be stronger next time. It's your improvement in mental strength that's the main thing though.

KenCoff · 08/11/2022 15:03

Wow OP what an amazing achievement!
Try and keep it up now and it will get easier.
One foot in front of the other is the way. You should be super proud

Hewbean · 08/11/2022 15:03

Isn't Autumn gorgeous to walk in?

abyssofwoah · 08/11/2022 15:03

That’s amazing, well done!

TrivialSoul · 08/11/2022 15:03

Amazing achievement, well done. Hope you are feeling really proud of yourself. Onwards and upwards!

Nadal · 08/11/2022 15:03

That's great. Well done

Squirrelvillage · 08/11/2022 15:04

I feel so proud of you! Well done!

Libre2 · 08/11/2022 15:05

No idea why, don’t know you from Eve but that made me a bit teary. I am delighted for you - so pleased, well done!!

Dora26 · 08/11/2022 15:05

Congratulations OP - well done you👏

ChickinBell · 08/11/2022 15:05

Christ , you should be mega proud of yourself!!!

poppym12 · 08/11/2022 15:05

That's fantastic 😊. I can only imagine how difficult that was, you should be very proud of yourself.

jay55 · 08/11/2022 15:07

That's amazing. Well done.

NooNakedJacuzziness · 08/11/2022 15:07

Well done! Hopefully it will get easier each time now that you've taken the first (8000) steps!

Lsquiggles · 08/11/2022 15:09

Wow that is an amazing achievement, well done!

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