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'Four single moms join hands to buy a home, transforming their lives and creating a paradise'

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LibbyOTV · 08/11/2022 10:56

Just seen this article about 4 single mums who bought a big house together in the US and share chores/costs etc. I know the arrangement will have its drawbacks and require constant communication but it also makes SO much sense in many ways I think! Would love to know everyone's thoughts?

An extract: "Having four people to share not just expenses but other duties such as babysitting and dog-walking is helping them manage their time and resources better. Harper notes that she saves roughly $30,000 a year as a result. “We don’t know whose socks are whose... socks everywhere,” said Harper. “iPads, dishes, cups. There’s a lot of exchanging that occurs. Usually not planned.” They also have regular homeowners' meetings to plan their week and discuss repairs and yard work and it always happens over a bottle of champagne. A huge relief for all of them is that they live with women, which sees so much of the responsibilities in a home being shared."

scoop.upworthy.com/4-single-moms-come-together-to-buy-a-home-to-transform-their-lives-and-create-a-paradise-565212

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Peach2021 · 08/11/2022 11:02

this is a lovely idea...not without its challenges of course, but if you knew the right people to do it with - mums and kids - it could work really well. Personally I need my own space, and the DC do too, so sharing a house probably wouldn't work for us, but if we could buy/build a place with separate living units but shared facilities I'd love that.

SpinningFloppa · 08/11/2022 11:05

Wouldn’t work for me I don’t like living with others

LisaJool · 08/11/2022 11:11

Certainly not without its challenges, but this could be a way forward for single parents in particular to get on the property ladder.

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Asher33 · 08/11/2022 11:12

Not for me. But can see the advantages of living this way

suzyscat · 08/11/2022 11:34

There are women in my life who although not geographically close I know I could do this with in heart beat. Only a couple of them. We always fall into a great rhythm, we think and speak similarly and we've weathered storms together. Other than those special ladies, nope, no way, never. I need my space.

SallyWD · 08/11/2022 11:52

Not for me. They'd all drive me mad, even if they were lovely people.

Ohjustboreoff · 08/11/2022 12:29

My first thoughts about this would be that in my area a house that would be big enough to house 4 single adults and 4+ children would be in excess of £2 million. Unless children shared rooms or very little living and outdoor space.

BobbyBobbyBobby · 08/11/2022 12:31

My idea of hell but great if you all get along. Chances are that there will be an epic fallout over a man though.

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