Retraining: I had my fees paid for and a bursary, my salary doubled after 3 years.
Taking control of my finances, I went to the library and read everything I could get my hands on on finances.
I get paid in one account, I use it as a feeder account. I set up standing orders towards:
1 account for bills. I put together all the bills, including the yearly ones, split it into 12 and that gave me the amount I need to not worry about insurances, car service, etc. It’s a NatWest reward one, I pay £2/month and get money back on my direct debits, about £10/month.
2 a regular saver account. I have had one for years with First Direct, I put £300 at 5% in and after 12 months I have a nice lump sum.
3 a spending account. All the supermarket shops, petrol, days out are from this account.
4 a living account. I put £50/month by standing order. This is used for haircuts, threading, clothes, make up, books, tickets to events. I actually need to up this to £75
5 what I call a ‘dregs’ account, whatever is left in the feeder account the day before I get paid, goes into a separate account, takes about a year to get to £1000, that I’m allowed to blow on whatever I fancy. Pre covid used to be city breaks, £300 worth of shoes, a new handbag, a piece of furniture etc.
All my big purchases are made on a 0% interest card.
I have always overpaid the mortgage, by 50%, as in, say my mortgage is £400, I overpaid by £200. I pretended I’m still paying rent, my mortgage is smaller that what I used to pay, but I kept the same payment. For my circumstances, being on my own, it makes sense to fix for 5 years, at least I know what’s what.
I chased that promotion. Boy do I chase it.
I have a notebook for all my expenses that I review every6 months.
HTH