The exact opposite of everything you thought?
I have moved on with life and now re married but my first husband completely and utterly blindsided me in the worst way possible. I thought we were in love and around the time when pregnancy hit me hard (illness wise) he me , moved out, no explanation, issued divorce proceedings and refused to talk to me. Weirdest thing was that by all accounts he had no other woman and is still single to this day (4 years on). DH is everything he’s not (so far!) but it genuinely baffles me that it happened. I can’t even really tell people how our marriage ended as I recall a couple of rows the week he left but nothing monumental. I think people think I’m trying to hide the reasons but I just never knew them!