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I'm at my wits end. WHAT am I allergic to in my bedroom?!

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snifflesandsneezes · 29/10/2022 08:35

PLEASE help me! We built our house just 12 months ago, and this has plagued me for almost as long, it is happening more so in pregnancy but was happening before too. I go to sleep and I wake up at some point between 12am-3am with dry itchy eyes, a scratchy throat I can't help but swallow to scratch, a dry cough, sneezing, runny nose and it keeps me awake for hours sometimes. It used to happen most nights which was bad enough but I could take antihistamines and somewhat cope but now I'm pregnant I can't and it's been months of happening every single night I sleep in that room. I move into the spare room sometimes but it's small with a day bed and not my lovely comfy bed and I don't want to never share a room with my husband again.

I know I'm sensitive to dust, but I wet dust most days and hoover every couple of days too. I change and hot wash our bedding twice a week. The bed is upholstered, could this be the problem? It's big and heavy and against the wall so there is dust build up behind it, it's also very low to the ground so can't hoover under, but this dust isn't being disturbed enough to cause this level of allergies surely?

What else could it be? The air? The mattress? The carpet? Do I just need an air purifier? Is there going to be mould hidden somewhere? I just don't understand and I'm SO fed up. I keep thinking I'll sell the bed, get a more wipe clean one, change the carpet to laminate etc but it's a lot of expense without actually knowing what the cause is

Someone solve the mystery please

OP posts:
PumpkinSpiceLatay · 29/10/2022 14:14

Wow I really want to vacuum behind my bed after seeing that dust photo!

Fuckitydoodah · 29/10/2022 14:19

I bet it's your upholstered bed. Either dust collecting on it, or, it's possibly been sprayed with something that's causing the reaction. A fire retardant for example.

Discovereads · 29/10/2022 14:24

snifflesandsneezes · 29/10/2022 12:37

Well I wiped all the upholstery with a wet cloth then hoovered it, moved the bed and hoovered between that and the wall and this was the result 🤮 will under it be as bad? Horrific

Yep. That’s what is making you sick.
I empathise as we have dust allergies here too and it’s constant dance of DH and I moving the heavy furniture to get behind and under it.

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snifflesandsneezes · 29/10/2022 14:29

I bought anti allergy bedding a couple of months ago and it's still happening, sorry I thought that was in the post! I've had the mattress in the old house too and didn't have these problems there but that's not say it's not started. It's a new house no one else has ever lived in it so it can't be anything lingering from others. I have stepped away from the hoover and am just praying it helps!

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Mrsjayy · 29/10/2022 16:07

@TattiePants I was prescribed Loratadine I have acid reflux and it causes the nasal drip . I take gaviscon or nexium for the acid reflux the combo really works for me. I had it 3 years before I got to the root of the problem.

PritiPatelsMaker · 29/10/2022 16:12

My sister had this as a child.

I'm afraid that you need to get rid of the carpet, the upholstered bed and any soft furnishings. Also agree with getting anti allergy bedding.

A PP made a good point anoint the heating. Give the radiator a good damp clean and sleep with a window cracked open.

You'll also need to hoover every week, including the mattress.

sellotape12 · 06/10/2023 20:36

Oh my goodness OP, I just found your post because I’m going through exactly the same thing. It’s driving me absolutely bananas. I don’t even want to sleep in our bedroom. Did you ever find out what it was? we have the west elm grey upholstered bedframe. my husband thinks it’s that.

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