I’m scared of flying too but I’ve never had a bad experience. Sorry if I repeat things that people have already said or sound patronising.
The first thing you’ll do is have your passports checked and check in your suitcase if you have checked luggage, you’ll probably have to queue for this. The desk that you need to go to will be displayed on screens above the desk and there can be a lot of them. If you’re very early, check in might not be open yet and if you’re not sure, ask an airport worker. Try to have your passports ready and your boarding passes will probably be on your phone.
Then you’ll go straight to security and probably have to queue again. Try to just pack liquids, deoderants and your makeup bag in your checked luggage so you don’t have to bother with them but if you’re not checking in luggage, check your makeup bag to see if you have anything you haven’t accounted for. If you have a drink, you’ll need to have finished it before security or throw it away. If you’re going somewhere warm, just don’t bother with a coat.
Then you’re free to browse the shops or get something to eat. If you’re not getting a meal on the plane, have a decent meal in the airport and buy a drink and snacks/ a meal deal at the airport as food on board is very expensive and there’s nothing worse than being hungry and stuck. Also take some chewy sweets for take off an landing incase your ears pop. Maybe have a drink to calm your nerves but don’t be tempted to get drunk!
Once you’re on the plane, it’ll just start reversing when it’s time to go, there isn’t an announcement. It might look like the plane next to you is moving, then you realise it’s you! 😂. You taxi for a while and then usually stop and you’ll hear the engines revvving up and then you’ll speed off down the runway. You might feel a bit of a “dip” then you can feel yourself going up.
You feel the aircraft turning quite quickly on takeoff because you don’t always take off in the direction that you are travelling or it might seem to do quite a few turns. This is normal. As you get to cruising height you’ll feel the aircraft level off which can feel like you’re going down but it’s still very normal. You’ll also hear the wheels going up and then down for landing which sounds very… mechanical and you might hear a clunk as they click into place but that’s fine too.
I always read a book during taxiing and take off to distract me but make sure you do listen to the safety briefing.
You might feel movement during the flight, but watch the cabin crew, they’ll be going about their business as usual except for take off and the final part of landing so you know you are safe.
When you land, you’ll feel like you’re going down for a long time and you may have to wait in a queue. The final part of landing feels faster and you may feel a little bump and movement of the plane as you touch the ground but landings seem to be a lot softer these days.
At the other end, you’ll go through security again and then go and get your luggage. Put a ribbon or sticker or something on your suitcase to make it easier to spot and try not to worry if it takes a while or if one bag comes much sooner than others, they get all mixed up in the loading process and it’s actually easier if they come at different times. If you miss your bag, just wait for it to come around again.
Then go and enjoy your holiday!