DH has been away for THREE weeks on holiday (doing his hobby) leaving me here at home with the kids. His plans didn’t all pan out whilst away and he has come back a miserable git and just lost it with me. Reason for the argument was of course I’ve stuck stuff in the diary whilst he’s been away and a date I’ve booked a meeting in another city doesn’t work for him. He then started saying I was always going away without more than a week’s notice (it’s happened ONCE - and it was in the diary and he hadn’t looked). Deep down he must know he’s being a dick but he’ll just keep attacking me as the first line of defence. I now have to go to bed and lie next to a man who is going to be vile. Unless I apologise. But I don’t think I’ve done anything wrong and a little bit more of me curls up every time I say sorry for something that wasn’t my fault. To be honest I was upset enough that he felt going away (to a mega destination) for 3 weeks without us was ‘normal’ and he hasn’t thanked me once for holding the fort in his absence. And I’m knackered. I just don’t know when he became this unpleasant, but he’s lost all perspective and kindness. And I am trapped. Sorry - just needed to put it somewhere.