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Y6 Child Residential Anxiety

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LittleBird74 · 16/10/2022 23:04

Wondering if any parents have experience the same.
DS due to go on 4 night residential after half term. He has been looking forward to it since it was announced and all his friends are going.
He started to mention he was nervous around a month ago but assured him it’s normal, he’ll enjoy himself etc.
Over the past week we have had A LOT of crying about being nervous and missing home/not seeing or speaking to me for a few days.
I have continued the reassurance and told him it’s ok and normal to feel as he feels and other children will feel similar. He will have great fun when he is there etc etc but all he can do is focus on missing home.
I have told him he does not have to go, I will never ever make him but he insists he wants to and is looking forward to the various activities. He knows he will be disappointed if he does not go.
School are aware and are being good with him.
One the whole he is a happy kid, very confident and friendly. No problems at school or with friendships. He has been to several camps with the Cubs for two nights without issue. Stayed with friends/family for nights here and there.

It is SO hard. I don’t know what to do for the best. The centre is only about an hour away so not far if he needs to come home.

Anyone else had similar and it turn out ok (or not)?

OP posts:
Threelittlelambs · 16/10/2022 23:06

Ask him

what can I do to help you while you are there?
what can I put in your backpack that reminds you of home
who can you speak to of you feel that you are missing home

most kids are perfectly fine when there and don’t look back

Blinkingmarvellous · 16/10/2022 23:08

Yup. Tantrums. Strops. I hate you... and all because she was worried about going. It was fine, obviously. I Hope next time will be easier

HereBeFuckery · 17/10/2022 05:54

I took y7 on residential last year. Loads were homesick, and I passed the school mobile around for them to ring home (those who hadn't brought phones, which was a pleasingly high number). Quick chat with mum or dad and a hug from me/another teacher and they were all grand. Tell him there will be a school phone with the trip leader so he can call home if he needs a familiar voice.

He'll have an amazing time, and be filthy and exhausted at the end of four days!

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