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Have you ever used a word or phrase that you thought everyone knew but they didn't?

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CaramelJones · 12/10/2022 19:14

Prompted by a discussion with a friend. When we first met she kept saying mardy and I had no idea what she meant.

Has anyone experienced similar with a regional word or a term that only your family use? It's making me wonder which regional words I might be using without thinking of it.

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TastesLikeFlavourlessFizz · 12/10/2022 21:03

One I was on the receiving end of - greeting. Apparently to Scottish folks this means crying. Took me at least a year to figure it out.

SleepingStandingUp · 12/10/2022 21:03

DahliaMacNamara · 12/10/2022 19:24

I thought it was self-explanatory, but I frequently get blank looks or the answer to a different question if I ask what age somebody is eg 'So what age is little Theo?', rather than 'how old is he?.

How can you answer anything but say, 7, to both of those

Firecarrier · 12/10/2022 21:04

ThanksAntsThants · 12/10/2022 20:30

When we were kids my parents would say to us, ‘stop being obstroculous.’ As far as I was aware this was a real proper word, it meant belligerent or awkward. When I was in secondary school, probably year 7 or 8, I was doing some writing work and asked my English teacher how to spell it. She of course had no idea what the hell I was on about. We spent ages with me telling her what it meant, insisting it was a real word because my parents used it all the time, and her coming up with words it could possibly be, the closest we got was obstreperous. She ended up getting a Dictionary out in the end to prove to me that it wasn’t in there, so insistent was I that obstroculous was an actual real word and she’d just never heard of it. It was a real word in our house though.

I thought it was a real word until I read your post! 😂

NiceUnusualDifferent · 12/10/2022 21:04

ThanksAntsThants · 12/10/2022 20:30

When we were kids my parents would say to us, ‘stop being obstroculous.’ As far as I was aware this was a real proper word, it meant belligerent or awkward. When I was in secondary school, probably year 7 or 8, I was doing some writing work and asked my English teacher how to spell it. She of course had no idea what the hell I was on about. We spent ages with me telling her what it meant, insisting it was a real word because my parents used it all the time, and her coming up with words it could possibly be, the closest we got was obstreperous. She ended up getting a Dictionary out in the end to prove to me that it wasn’t in there, so insistent was I that obstroculous was an actual real word and she’d just never heard of it. It was a real word in our house though.

@ThanksAntsThants
Mine too! I didn't realise it wasn't a real word I read your post

Firecarrier · 12/10/2022 21:06

Ryder68 · 12/10/2022 20:49

'Luggy' for knotted hair (Notts).

Same in Stoke!

ForkHandler · 12/10/2022 21:07

FatFilledTrottyPuss HappyHappyJoy EllieQ yes, west Cumbrian - we're a jameating family.

I baffled the dog groomer when I apologised for all the cotters in the dog's hair, and warned her that DDog was a bit of a flarch, so not to give in to her big brown eyes...

HariboReckoning · 12/10/2022 21:08

My mum used to tell me and my brother of for ‘clodhopping’ about upstairs (making a noise/being a bit rowdy). I’d completely forgotten the word until I came across it in a book recently. Never heard anyone but my mum use it.

TheMildManneredMilitant · 12/10/2022 21:09

'Fettle' = mood as in 'he's in a right fettle', 'she's in good fettle'.

Tyneside/Northumberland

SleepingStandingUp · 12/10/2022 21:10

I'm confused about island and roundabout. Its an island. Don't be so weird 😂

Donnies for hands.
Tip tops for ice pops
Gambols for forward rolls
Caylie (sp?) for sherbert

SleepingStandingUp · 12/10/2022 21:11

Firecarrier · 12/10/2022 21:06

Same in Stoke!

It's luggy cos it's full of lugs. What else do you call them lol.
West Midlands here

JenniferWooley · 12/10/2022 21:11

@HariboReckoning I use that all the time - usually when DS is clodhopping about the place with his big feet

FoxyBloxy · 12/10/2022 21:11

Angin

ceaddas · 12/10/2022 21:11

Yes yes to daps, Also had to explain dank, combe, dimpsey, dollop and jasper.

Asking where's it to causes some hilarity.

Scrowy · 12/10/2022 21:13

Scrow or Scrowy

@ForkHandler and @EllieQ might know what it is.

also ... cotters

ForkHandler · 12/10/2022 21:14

And also - when cakes sink in the middle, they're 'sad'. I said that very knowledgeably during Bake Off one night childhood spent in WI baking tents and DH looked at me as if I'd gone mad.

Tealpoppy · 12/10/2022 21:14

I walked into work saying I was mafting (hot) and got some very odd looks
(I live in the midlands but am from Yorkshire)

I also say ‘croggy’(giving a ride on the back of a pushbike),’ginnel/ten-foot’ (alleyway),‘chuddy’ (chewing gum),’plaggy’ (plastic) ‘they are mafting round your ankles’ (your trousers are too short) ‘Mardy’ (meaning your sulking) and ‘playing hooky’ (bunking off school)

I drive my southern partner insane as he never knows what I’m on about!

JenniferWooley · 12/10/2022 21:16

We call knotted hair "matted", lugs here are your ears!

Oxters for armpits

Hunners - any number between 2 & a gazillion "there's hunners ay midges doon by the loch"

Carriemac · 12/10/2022 21:20

It's 'Chock a block'

Ryder68 · 12/10/2022 21:25

Tabs are ears! "meks yer tabs laugh" describing a fizzy drink

ThanksAntsThants · 12/10/2022 21:25

Ow bist?

shinynewapple22 · 12/10/2022 21:26

@SleepingStandingUp I was surprised when I realised that everyone didn't use roundabout and island interchangeably.

HunterHearstHelmsley · 12/10/2022 21:27

ThanksAntsThants · 12/10/2022 21:25

Ow bist?

Bay too bah.

BadGranny · 12/10/2022 21:29

Anyone come across ‘spice’ for sweets?

Whataplanker · 12/10/2022 21:30

Not quite the same but in my family we would say "I'm knackered" meaning very tired but people informed me once that it is rude!

echt · 12/10/2022 21:31

An Australian colleague got quite shirty with me for using the expression " by a long chalk", saying they'd never heard of it. While it didn't surprise me, I was taken aback by their evident irritation.

I always kept my mouth shut when Australian colleagues who never ever use strong language say of a meeting: 'That was a wank, wasn't it?" or " Had a wog over the holidays", meaning an annoying but minor illness.

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