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If you knew someone was committing benefit fraud would you report them?

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Chloefairydust · 08/10/2022 01:07

If you knew of someone who was committing benefit fraud, and had been for the past 7 years would you report them? Let’s say for example this person has been bragging about claiming benefits (I’m assuming child benefits and universal tax benefit, potentially benefits toward housing too) during this time and hasn’t declared assets that she has in that she actually owns a house she shared with her ex. She’s been bragging about seeing a solicitor who’s told her she’s owed a substantial amount of money from having her name on the mortgage while saying shes thinking of a way to claim the money from the house without alerting the benefits people (she also bragged about how she never payed a penny towards the bills or mortgage when she lived with said ex, she seemed quite smug by the thought of getting her hands on his hard earned cash🤨) … I was quite shocked and didn’t want to judge but it just didn’t seem morally right to me… If it makes any difference she’s not worked in about 6 years either with no interest in getting a job 😕

Is this benefit fraud? And what is the moral thing to do here? turn a blind eye and accept she’s claiming money she’s not entitled to? Or to report? I have never reported anyone for anything, and I try really hard not to judge other people, so I’m struggling morally with what’s the right thing to do now…

Would she be in lots of trouble or would she just get the benefits stopped? What would you do?

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beachcitygirl · 09/10/2022 15:23

Only if you would also report yourself/husband/friend/colleagues for EVER putting anything through on expenses or claim tax back on a "coffee" lunch/dinner that wasn't purely business.

Chloefairydust · 09/10/2022 17:18

MayThe4th · 09/10/2022 14:01

never ceases to amaze me how widely benefit fraud is condoned and positively encouraged on here. I can only assume that an awful lot of mn’ers are or would do the same given the opportunity.

As for the argument that the government/amazon/insert organisation of choice are doing the same, the two things are not mutually exclusive.

Fraud is fraud, or do you only disagree with it when it isn’t someone you personally know.

And it is people like the OP’s relative who will lead to benefits being far more difficult to come by in future.

I know right!! 😮

Im genuinely shocked, I was really shocked hearing my friend tell me all this like it was normal and not even ashamed of it and then on here everyone seems to think it’s normal too.

I can only assume from these replies that most people are committing benefit fraud seeing how people are so defensive of the crime 🤔

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Sarasandman · 09/10/2022 17:26

Chloefairydust · 09/10/2022 17:18

I know right!! 😮

Im genuinely shocked, I was really shocked hearing my friend tell me all this like it was normal and not even ashamed of it and then on here everyone seems to think it’s normal too.

I can only assume from these replies that most people are committing benefit fraud seeing how people are so defensive of the crime 🤔

It might be because the benefits system has intentionally, by successive governments, been made so punitive and Draconian, while benefits have been reduced so drastically, that it is very hard to obtain them and rarely possible to survive on them. It's more likely that people who do commit fraud (a very low number indeed) are doing so out of sheer terror and desperation than any wish to do wrong. Feeding their children, keeping a roof over their heads, heating the house comes first. In my work I come across people in desperate situations like this all the time, very caring, intelligent and decent people left destitute by the austerity years and recent developments.

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HandlebarLadyTash · 09/10/2022 17:30

No

Coyoacan · 09/10/2022 17:32

Sometimes the rules are written in such a way that it is impossible to navegate the system being 100% honest.

OhAmBackAgain · 09/10/2022 17:43

It might be because the benefits system has intentionally, by successive governments, been made so punitive and Draconian, while benefits have been reduced so drastically, that it is very hard to obtain them and rarely possible to survive on them. It's more likely that people who do commit fraud (a very low number indeed) are doing so out of sheer terror and desperation than any wish to do wrong. Feeding their children, keeping a roof over their heads, heating the house comes first. In my work I come across people in desperate situations like this all the time, very caring, intelligent and decent people left destitute by the austerity years and recent developments

this^

and yet the taxes of the big corporations and rich which disappear into their own pockets, would be the way out for everybody.

Yet instead it leaves some 'hard working' self righteous tax payers feeling resentful of the burden on their door and willing to throw their 'friends' in prison.

Divide and Conquer

LearnerCook · 09/10/2022 17:54

I used to think I would. But nowadays I'm far more angry about the rich who are allowed to hide cash offshore, avoid tax, pretend to us that they aren't doing it. They cost us far more.

LimpBiskit · 09/10/2022 18:06

I'd report it. It's fraud plain and simple.

AutumnScream · 09/10/2022 18:14

These threads are the hilarious mumsnet double standards.

If its benefit fraud then its ok but if you accidentally walk out of a supermarket without paying for an item and dont immediately go back in grovelling then you are a thief who needs arresting asap and have no morals 🤣

movingsky · 09/10/2022 18:16

Yes, I would report fraud. No, I have never done anything fraudulent.

Chloefairydust · 09/10/2022 18:26

AutumnScream · 09/10/2022 18:14

These threads are the hilarious mumsnet double standards.

If its benefit fraud then its ok but if you accidentally walk out of a supermarket without paying for an item and dont immediately go back in grovelling then you are a thief who needs arresting asap and have no morals 🤣

I was about to say this🤣

Im thinking of starting a thread ‘Is it ok to shop lift from a corporate business like Asda if they are tax dodging scum themselves?’

Haha peoples morals are crazy! 🙄😂

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TooBigForMyBoots · 09/10/2022 20:43

I don't think people's morals are crazy. It's that morality isn't black and white. Do you think that it is moral that children go hungry and cold in the UK @Chloefairydust?

beachcitygirl · 09/10/2022 20:54

@Chloefairydust
It's possibly just that most of us can see beyond the end of our own noses & don't snort fairy dust honey.

For me I find it very hard to care about a drop in a puddle whilst the likes of Sunak and his billionaire blood sucking wife plough billions of shores & avoid tax whilst expecting ordinary working and disabled and yes alcoholics and unemployed people live on less for a week than he & his ilk spend on a bottle of bubbly.

Climb down from your moral hobby horse sweetheart & start caring about what really matters (and stop voting Tory) & have the decency to tell this woman you are NO friend of hers.
Because you're no friend to anyone but yourself with you're too sweet to be candy saccharine faux concern.

Chloefairydust · 09/10/2022 21:46

@beachcitygirl

Not that it’s any of your business but I have never voted Tory 🤨

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Tillsforthrills · 12/10/2022 05:59

You are no ‘friend’ OP. Agree with PP, whatever happens please don’t pretend to be friends with the person in question.

How awful to have a friend planning for your downfall.

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