Dds are in Yr8. They are prime 'my mate fancies you, he's my boyfriend, he's dumped' all in the space of 3/4 days.
Dd2 is a bit sensitive but not always as empathetic to others. Been an ongoing underlying issue for years.
This boy has apparently fancied her for ages, since last school year. He asked her out on Friday for her to dump him today. Apparently he's too loving.
Now the reason I know all of this is because dd1 tells me. The poor dumped lad messaged dd1 to ask why dd2 had sent him a text saying 'it's over' then blocked him. She announced this over the Sunday lunch table in front of grandma.
I said to dd2 that it's fine to dump him but do try and be kind to him. And she didn't like it when she was dumped like that so why do it to someone else. She stormed off upstairs never to be seen again.
DH says I shouldn't have said anything as it's just pathetic teen shite. Whilst I agree and would prefer not to know tbh, I think that she has a history of being a bit mean (she did it to a friend recently too) so that behaviour needs calling out.
For context she has some medical stuff going on atm and we're going a bit easy on her but also not saying 'don't be a dick' isn't helpful to her in the long run.