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[GetItOffYourChest]

Long time poster, brand new user name. I doubt anything here will be Daily Mail fodder, but just in case, piss off, Daily Mail and all trash publications!

Everything you want to say but for some reason are not, drop it here. Right now I don't even care if this is just an echo chamber where I can offload, but I imagine there are others who would like this space!

DH. You are not incapable of housework, you're just a lazy, self centred man who thinks it's beneath him.

When you say you're going to do something, actually do it. Our children will remember how much you promised and didn't deliver.

They're also going to remember how much of a lazy fucking hypocrite you can be. I cannot get my head round where on earth you summon the audacity from to lecture our teens about clearing up after themselves and making sure they're organised, because you can do neither. I have no idea why you think your life admin is my job. It isn't! You will continue to miss opportunities and appointments and important family dates until you realise you only married a life partner. You didn't hire a secretary in the same day.

And you DID unplug the fucking freezer. You know you did. I know you did. Nobody else was here!! You're pissy because you know I know and you know you unplugged it for some stupid reason, probably to charge something at the closest outlet to you at the time, and you didn't plug it back in. You DEFINITELY DID IT. And I will die on this hill, because you don't get to berate and haul people over the coals for their mistakes and have all yours go uncommented on. You cost us money through your negligence, you stupid fucking fool!!

AND. Just stop laying around upstairs on the bed. You're not a teenager, you're a parent. You don't have the luxury of six hours to diss about every single day, but fuck me do you make every effort to find them! I'm so so sick of being the one everything is heaped onto. Unlike you, I won't let our kids down when they need me to take them somewhere or pick them up. I'm not satisfied with letting apps raise our youngest child. Get your lazy, selfish ass OUT OF THAT BED and maybe take your little boy out to ride his bike? Or do some of the jobs you've stacked up over the last year or so? Or, I don't know, *TALK TO YOUR WIFE AND KIDS?!?
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You treat me with so much disrespect lately, I'm really unhappy about it

So many of you are in relationships with men who don’t even like you

I daily read threads of someone’s DH or boyfriend being a complete shit. Whether that’s being lazy fucker or always having to out-ill their sick or operation-recovering wives or forgetting birthdays year on year.

We all fuck up sometimes in relationships or can be a bit selfish- but I continuously read threads full of systematic disrespect which is constantly downplayed by ‘am I overreacting?’

They don’t treat their colleagues like this. They don’t treat their friends like this.

You communicate and say how you feel- but nothing changes because they DON’T CARE

honestly you’d all be better off with some plants and some cats than the daily grind of washing the socks of and cOmMuNicATInG with someone who doesn’t give a shit about you.

if someone, who loved you and you loved, said to you ‘I really wish you’d do x’ or ‘it makes me feel sad when you do y’ - you’d just make the change if it was reasonable, no? Why do they get a free pass to keep making you sad

why are you doing it to yourselves? Obviously I know money kids and all of that makes it harder to leave- but why are you kidding yourself that they don’t mean it and they are busy and you just have different ‘love languages’ or whatever the bullshit excuse of the month is

they literally don’t deserve you

Overseas relatives telling us they are coming for NYE. Travelling around the country. No concept of distances nor train disruptions over holiday season. No concept that winter is dark, cold and days short. Now informed 5 are coming- not just 2!