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Our school has not been ofsted-ed for over 13 years!!

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User198765432 · 21/09/2022 12:05

Should preface this by saying I used to be a teacher.

I have two children and we live in a very leafy area with incredibly low levels of deprivation. Our local state school is hugely oversubscribed and many describe it as basically a private school. My two kids go. One is in y4 and one in y1. We picked the area based partly on the school as it's outstanding and has good ks2 results. It's also walkable.

But it's TERRIBLE. The headteacher is well known for being an absolute dictator, she will not change anything at all, ever and she won't even politely discuss issues or concerns.

I had concerns at the end of y2 with my son's work. He's a bright enough but he bought back books with absolutely terrible work in them. He'd scribbled all over things, drawn pictures of poo on it, written little silly stories everywhere. Nothing was marked with more than a tick and all his work was well well below his level of ability. It's not that the work was too easy, it's that basically nobody seemed to give a shit with the effort he put in. Did nobody notice or care he had done any of this? The headteacher met with me, didn't apologise and just blamed my son. He did have a part to play of course but why did a teacher not pull him up on it all year?! How is it ok to let kids draw poo emojis all over everything?!
There have been issues with bullying in his class, repeated issues, again not dealt with or even acknowledged.

My youngest started reception and it was ok but he struggled as their approach is so linear. Hardly any time for play, no outdoor time - their 'area' is honestly never ever used. As a reception teacher I know full well it was piss poor and that good Early Years teaching is very different.

This year we are STILL not allowed on site at all, not ever. All children are expected to go in on day 1 just through the main door. Many of the y1 cried... They are still so little!!! They didn't even send the teacher out. Expected them just to go in and find their way to new classroom. It's a 3 form entry school so is a big site.

It's just such a poor school. So insular and very 'our way or fuck off'. We could move them but they wouldn't get places in a school together. Logistically a nightmare.

The school haven't been inspected fully since 2007!!! I am sorry but that's appalling no? This is nearly 15 fucking years ago. I am absolutely certain they will not get an outstanding again and I honestly think they need a big wake up call.

I've spoken to numerous other parents all of whom agree that there are big issues with the school and especially the head teachers attitude. So it's not just me. The most recent issue a friend had was quite a serious almost safeguarding issue which the head teacher dismissed as it didn't actually happen and was just a near miss. (Child almost sent home with someone that didn't have permission to collect them, but another parent intervened. Office staff about to hand the child over!!)

Is there ANYTHING I can do?

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Doingprettywellthanks · 21/09/2022 14:45

Doingprettywellthanks · 21/09/2022 14:45

We picked the area based partly on the school as it's outstanding and has good ks2 results.

and you’re a teacher?

I don’t mean to be harsh but surely as a teacher you know ofsted and results are not the best benchmark for a school!

Doingprettywellthanks · 21/09/2022 14:47

User198765432 · 21/09/2022 14:43

For as long as I've been there!

And I'm not going to give any identifying information about the school name etc which I hope people will understand.

Why did you move your younger one there?

a head teacher blatantly favouring other children and seemingly “not a fan of my children”? Would not be my children’s head teacher for very long

Doingprettywellthanks · 21/09/2022 14:48

User198765432 · 21/09/2022 14:43

For as long as I've been there!

And I'm not going to give any identifying information about the school name etc which I hope people will understand.

Clearly you have given identifying information because I’m almost certain I’ve identified it!

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about these subjects:

b8tes7sw · 21/09/2022 14:49

Report to Ofsted and governors

toomuchlaundry · 21/09/2022 14:53

@marmiteadict Ofsted aren’t going to tell you when an inspection is planned. Schools only get one days notice

User198765432 · 21/09/2022 14:54

@Doingprettywellthanks that's fine but I don't want to be the one to give any identifying knowledge such as the name. The scenarios I have given could in theory apply to any other school.

But if I say yes it is H in RU or whatever then that is specific.

It's not about what school it is. It's about what if anything I can do.

And yes, I'm a teacher and yes that's how I chose the school, along with visiting the other local schools. We were torn between two and we're unlikely to get any others because we live too far away - we are somewhat rural. In hindsight I wish I had picked the other school but when we enrolled our eldest we genuinely believed the one we picked would be a better fit. We were possibly wrong. That said, I have hear unsavoury things about the other school so who knows what that's like on the inside.

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Milknosugarta · 21/09/2022 14:56

I would have a look on GIAS and If it is a maintained school, contact the Local Authority governor directly.

Doingprettywellthanks · 21/09/2022 14:57

It's not about what school it is. It's about what if anything I can do.

so moving isn’t an option

Because with a head that you have outlined here - there is very little you can do.

the school is very academically successful and clearly puts great emphasis on that. It doesn’t suit your children.

Doingprettywellthanks · 21/09/2022 14:59

I have to say though OP… I know a lot of parents in the area are on mumsnet and if I can identify the school from your thread, they will too. And you’ve given away a lot of identifying info about yourself

earsup · 21/09/2022 15:00

Our experience of governors is that often they just nod everything through and some are chosen as quite dim.....ex teacher here..!!

User198765432 · 21/09/2022 15:01

Moving is an option but not a preference. We are in the right place for secondary. Well.... In theory, provided that school isn't also terrible and smoke and mirrors. Perhaps I should go and look around!

We could possibly scrape enough for private if we were going to do state for secondary but honestly I'd rather not. I think we'd rather move.

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User198765432 · 21/09/2022 15:02

Well it's not the school you mentioned upthread. It really isn't. @Doingprettywellthanks

Anyway thats all I'm going to say about it. I've said I won't name it and I won't.

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Doingprettywellthanks · 21/09/2022 15:07

User198765432 · 21/09/2022 15:01

Moving is an option but not a preference. We are in the right place for secondary. Well.... In theory, provided that school isn't also terrible and smoke and mirrors. Perhaps I should go and look around!

We could possibly scrape enough for private if we were going to do state for secondary but honestly I'd rather not. I think we'd rather move.

Are you in the grammar system?

what’s the selection process for secondary?

Doingprettywellthanks · 21/09/2022 15:12

On the basis of this thread….

you moved to an area for this school because it had an outstanding report and good results. Baffling as any teacher will know this is not indicative of whether or not a school is outstanding or not.

Clearly you assumed that your children would be academic and fit in with the competitive academic and sporting ethos. They have not.

From the outset the headteacher has not disguised fact that she seems to dislike your first child and favour others. And yet you decided to enroll your younger one.

the school does not sound great but those with children thriving will think differently. Yours aren’t . There really is very little you can “do” to change that. So I’d move them if I was as unhappy as you seem to be (and despise the head!)

MargaretThursday · 21/09/2022 15:51

There's a school I know too well that was last OFSTED-ed in 2009/10 and got a very dodgy "Outstanding" (they wanted to take over an academy trust and needed an outstanding to be allowed to do it. Freedom of information showed some very dodgy communication between head and CC about this) It's going to be interesting when they're reassessed.

TortolaParadise · 18/03/2023 08:35

TrussNoNomics · 21/09/2022 12:41

Sounds awful (I’m a governor). If a parent came to me I’d be taking this feedback very seriously. Governors will be a mix of parents plus independents not associated with the school (like me) and maybe a few old timers who may be in the Heads pocket. There should be sufficient counter balance to get this heard.

Some HT's seem to walk on water though. I've spent years trying to figure this out.😱

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