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A woman found my purse outside my front door

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FurryDandelionSeekingMissile · 19/09/2022 12:33

I can't believe it… it must've fallen from my pocket when I got my keys out, and been sat out there for a day and a half. Everything's in there, even my emergency tenner.

My front door's only a metre from the pavement, she'll have seen it walking past, along with every other person who walked down there and happened to glance in the right direction — customers to the pub, the takeaway, the corner shop, people walking to the park or the school or the church, there's people walking past every few minutes. Nobody even swiped the tenner, and this woman took time out of her bank holiday morning to work out what must've happened and make sure it got back to the right person.

DP answered the video doorbell, she said she'd found a wallet outside our front door and asked for a name, he gave his and when she clarified female, gave mine, and when she confirmed he just asked her to pop it through the door, without the copious thanks I wanted to give. We were having a lie in and he was barely awake; I tried to get downstairs in time to thank her but she'd gone.

So if you're what he described as a tall blonde woman holding a baby, and you spoke to a gruff-sounding man this morning to return a wallet, please just know there's a very, very grateful woman here who didn't even know she'd lost anything and might not have realised for days.

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FurryDandelionSeekingMissile · 19/09/2022 12:37

I'm just feeling so happy and grateful and also embarrassed but mostly really heartened at the honesty and goodness of people. Of everybody who didn't go "There's a wallet there — free money!", and of the woman who bent down to get it while carrying a baby and took the time to return it to me.

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Creepymanonagoatfarm · 19/09/2022 12:42

A fitting day for a sign of humanity op.

SapphireSeptember · 19/09/2022 12:47

That's lovely OP! 😊

IslamoradaILoveYou · 19/09/2022 12:51

Oh, I hope that lady reads this.
Very happy for you op!

FurryDandelionSeekingMissile · 19/09/2022 13:02

IslamoradaILoveYou · 19/09/2022 12:51

Oh, I hope that lady reads this.
Very happy for you op!

It would be nice if she did, DP did say thanks but in a very… minimalist way 🤣 I know the woman herself almost certainly won't see the post, but it was just such a lovely thing someone did for me today that I wanted to share.

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7amByTheSeaPlease · 19/09/2022 13:03

That's lovely. Your husband sounds a bit ungrateful though 🤔

Rwealere · 19/09/2022 13:06

How lovely! Maybe put a thank you note saying he was sleepyhead we really appreciate what you did on…. where she can see it, it doesn’t need full explanation the right person will know

Rwealere · 19/09/2022 13:07

Not obviously on your gate or similar place

Rwealere · 19/09/2022 13:07

Aaarrrggghhhh note not not lol

BeenHereForYonkyDoodles · 19/09/2022 13:09

How lovely! I hope she reads this too.
I had a kind hearted man knock once to tell me I'd left my keys in my door. Kindness is free.

FurryDandelionSeekingMissile · 19/09/2022 13:09

7amByTheSeaPlease · 19/09/2022 13:03

That's lovely. Your husband sounds a bit ungrateful though 🤔

He was barely awake (the doorbell alert went off while we were asleep, as we were late to bed last night and having a lie-in) and I think was in standard polite "talking to delivery person at the door through the phone" mode. He did say thank you to her, but I wanted to catch her face to face and be more effusive. I was too slow. He's not a good waker-upper… once he came round a bit more he clicked properly what had happened. Then went back to sleep 🤣

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FurryDandelionSeekingMissile · 19/09/2022 13:11

That's an idea Rwealere, she'll almost certainly be local given the nature of the area.

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FurryDandelionSeekingMissile · 19/09/2022 13:25

I'd also just been woken by the doorbell notification, and because she'd said "wallet" I didn't butt in, as I thought it was DP's conversation to have. If I'd been properly awake and realised sooner, I'd have interrupted and shouted across to his phone that I'd be down. (Doorbell app doesn't work on my phone.) I don't know, maybe she was happier posting it through the door rather than having a conversation with an unwashed sleep-addled woman in a dressing gown Grin

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IrisVersicolor · 19/09/2022 13:57

“Imaginary evil is romantic and varied; real evil is gloomy, monotonous, barren. Imaginary good is boring; real good is always new and marvellous” Simone Weil.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 19/09/2022 14:00

That's lovely @FurryDandelionSeekingMissile

A few years ago a lady found my purse, work phone and car keys all together in Leeds City Centre! Within "bleeping distance" of the car. I got everything back within an hour, and she refused any reward. There are some very good people out there.

TheLongGallery · 19/09/2022 14:24

DH left £100 in a cash point, I posted earlier on how easily distracted he is on another thread today. As we walked away a lady shouted and chased us to give it back. He was obviously very pleased and insisted on giving the woman a tenner. She thanked us and turned to her friends and said I can get that new top I want now.

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