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Noisy Neighbours - Am I Crazy?

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JTOWN2306 · 13/09/2022 20:13

So I've lived in my semi detached house for over 5 years. We had the same neighbours for 4 years and although they were noisy with two young children, it was very manageable and we never really had any issue.

Last year they sold up and renters moved in. They seem really pleasant whenever we talk to them but never exchange more than a "hello". It is a mum and her two kids (occasionally the dad appears but not sure what the story is there) they are relatively loud - slamming the front door, running up and down the stairs, you can hear the kids shouting etc. Typically, you don't hear much after around 9/10pm at night (aside from maybe the odd bang or door banging shut).

I grew up in a detached house and never had these issues before. It's just me and my husband in our house and he says it's just something I need to get used to.

It has always bothered me but not terribly. I should mention I'm almost 37 weeks pregnant and over the last week I have become OBSESSED with every little noise next door. I'm crying at how loud they are and I even think they're slamming doors in the middle of the night to wake me. I'm taking it really personally even though I know it's not malicious. At the same time I'm also feeling anxious that they will hear our newborn baby and try to make more noise.

So my question is - do we think this is pregnancy hormones? Did anyone else feel this way towards the end of their pregnancy? Like really easily wound up etc? I would be so grateful for any advice as the anxiety is crippling 😥

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Uptowntwirl · 13/09/2022 21:13

Poor you. Can you move to a side of the ouse that is less noisy for a few days?

MeriPenomause · 13/09/2022 21:15

You definitely become increasingly over sensitive to noise when it goes on for a while.
I'd say this plus pregnancy is tipping you over the edge.
You will be home a lot more once baby arrives so if it is anti social noise maybe have a talk with them now. If not you'll just have to learn to live with it.

Dripdropper · 13/09/2022 21:18

Oh poor you.

and yes, I did get a bit like that when I was heavily pregnant. And for a few weeks after the bay was born. It was neighbours with loud TV and neighbours kids loudly playing outside. It just felt unbearable! And like they were so unreasonable to do it. . (In hindsight I am SO glad I kept my thoughts to myself and didn’t harangue them about it. I was tempted and felt justified at the time but I can see now I wasn’t!)

for me it was a combo of general end of
preg anxiety, hormones, being at home and sleep
deprived more than usual, and psychologically feeling a bit trapped.

it didn’t last and hopefully will be the same for you.

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JTOWN2306 · 13/09/2022 22:16

@MeriPenomause Thank you for your reply. Tbh it's not anti social noise which is why I'm reluctant to approach them. A neighbour on the other side approached them about an oil spill and apparently that ended in an unpleasant encounter so I'd rather not get on their bad side lol

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JTOWN2306 · 13/09/2022 22:18

@Dripdropper thank you for your reply. This has given me some hope that this feeling won't last too long. As I say, it's always been there but has never bothered me to this extent before. I just feel like I'm losing my mind 😭 so I really appreciate your comment - thank you!

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