I just had my best friend’s wedding , I was an honorary bridesmaid, she said I was a bridesmaid with no duties. When the photos were being done the photographer said parents, siblings and grooms men, do I just went and sat near by I’m 18 weeks pregnant and my husband had gone to the pub instead of getting me anything safe to eat (I have giants if allergies and an pregnant) I was offered leftovers pizza which had been in a car for an hour which I didn’t consider safe. After speaking with her mum she promptly sent me to go eat something. We had lots of photos together with me helping her get ready and group shots. To be honest my feet we’re starting to swell too and I wasn’t sure if I could eat the One veggie thing served at the reception and when I asked what it was I was feeling too spaced out to understand. I just didn’t get as involved with everything as much as I would liked. It was 9 pm by the time the music started and I was soo tired my hubby couldn’t keep me up right enough even to do one dance which I really wanted to do. It was very energetic music and I just didn’t have it in me. I did talk uk lots of people and by 9.30 I was just done I felt I had kept going as long as possible. I went for a lie down I was getting a 30 second pet update from mum while letting down my hair when hubby rushed in saying that the bride had dislocated her knee. In leggings and and baggy cardigan I rushed back to check on her. I had dislocated my kneecaps over 200 times so I knew when I saw her dancing in a chair with an ice pack in her dislocated knee cap she was in some serious pain. Intently knew she was putting on a show but I didn’t want to be the one saying leave your wedding before the party really got started. Told her to get it checked tomorrow and see her at breakfast. I just get back to the too. Taking lots of my vitamins and potions I tell hubby to go have fun. And pass out not fall asleep pass out on the bed. I wake at 1.05 am my hubby isn’t here it’s freezing I can’t leave the room alone (I have a tendency to fall, it’s pitch black and the steps have holes) and his phone went to voice mail 3 times, I messaged other guests (have you seen hubby,???) no replies I am still tired and hubby walks in at 2 am drunk as a skunk. So I am feeling overwhelmed, weepy and wondering if I did anything wrong or right? Should I need to tell hubby to get me food when that’s what we agreed? And to come back before 2 am? Should I have made myself more available for photos? Taped up brides knee?