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Can anyone help me - does this exist?

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PurpleHays · 12/09/2022 20:48

My DD1 is heading to Uni next week. I am driving her up there, but really it's not a journey I feel I can do very often.

I want to leave a train ticket with her, so she can pop herself on a train at any point, either during the first term if she's struggling, or at the end of term to come home.

Is there such a thing as a train ticket with no date?

She has ASC and generally functions very well, but has always got confused when buying train tickets. I think it would reassure both of us if she had one in her wallet and could use it any any point.

I have googled obviously, but not found anything that helps! TIA.

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PurpleHays · 12/09/2022 22:41

carefullycourageous · 12/09/2022 21:22

Will she be near a staffed station? One option would be to write down what she wants and leave it with cash in an envelope and she can buy one at the window? I am not sure how confused she gets when you say confused.

Do you have good services to your home town - does she need to change?

Thank you. She's in a city, so the station should be staffed. I think your idea is a good back up - thank you.

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PurpleHays · 12/09/2022 22:44

lljkk · 12/09/2022 21:24

yeah what CloudPop said would work. But it's not responsible for her to book any ticket, you really want to get her a railcard & teach her how to find off peak advance purchase options. This is a lifeskill.

In an ideal world, I agree @lljkk But she finds sorting travel stressful and we've not had much success with this one. She can actually do the travel, it's the ticket bit that she finds tricky. I think it's become a sort of block, and her rigid thinking has come into play.

I am also a bit worried that if she's coming home because she's finding Uni all a bit stressful, she will be even less ideally placed to sort this for herself.

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PurpleHays · 12/09/2022 22:45

carefullycourageous · 12/09/2022 21:24

www.lner.co.uk/tickets-savings/competitions-offers-and-events/offers-and-discounts/gift-vouchers/ Yes you can buy vouchers - but it doesn't help with the buying process of choosing teh correct ticket.

Can you set up an account with saved journeys in?

That would be brilliant if it were possible @carefullycourageous

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PurpleHays · 12/09/2022 22:49

uncomfortablydumb53 · 12/09/2022 22:27

I second the Trainline app I have it myself You can save previous destinations etc, then it's just scrolling down for dates, times and fares
Book journey( reserve seat if she wants to)
The ticket is emailed to your phone
You could also get her a railcard (£25 per year) which would save money and give her control

Thank you @uncomfortablydumb53

It does seem like there are options, even if not the simple solution I would like!

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Yarnosaur · 12/09/2022 22:49

The Trainline App is brilliant, easy to set it up and buy tickets. Could you do a practise trip with her so she knows how to use it?

waltzingparrot · 12/09/2022 22:50

I'd pop in to your local station and ask at the ticket kiosk. Maybe there's a new product available none of us know about.

PurpleHays · 12/09/2022 22:50

Thank you everyone who has contributed on this thread. I really appreciate your help, and you've given me several avenues to explore.

MN community at its best 💐💐

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