I’m sure I’m not making this up in my head and can clearly see that exdp is quite literally, erasing our ds out of his life.
He has another child age 3, our ds is 10 he hasn’t seen ds for well over a month, hasn’t spent time with him since June and spoken to him once on the phone in all that time.
As far as I am aware he is not with his other child’s mother, but seems as though he is only interested in their child.
I don’t have him on any social media or even have his number saved, but ds tells me all he ever sees in his dad’s pictures are his ds, questioning me and asking why he never has him up or sees him yet always has his brother, bearing in mind my ds has only met him twice in the 3 year so has no relationship with him and is becoming quite resentful towards him.
I honestly don’t know what to say anymore I feel for my ds, I can’t bare speaking to ex anymore and kind of knew that if he did ever have another child he would do this.
I have never stopped them having a relationship and for a few years he was quite the doting dad, until of course he met the child’s mother who took an instant dislike to me, despite me never having met her to this day. Yet I know she is peacocking and happily telling people he sees her child because he loved her and I was just a fling 🤨 we were together 6 years before having ds.
I just can’t stand it anymore as he is always blaming me for him not seeing ds and I don’t know what else to do.