A couple of times now (most recently tonight), a 50-something woman has come to the door demanding entrance to our house and/or information regarding the previous owners including a forwarding address. We know the previous owners name but not address - she is a 60-something widower so would 100% not be comfortable giving any information that allows this person to trace her.
The woman who calls is clearly under the influence of drink/drugs, is unkempt, extremely skinny and seems in need of help. However she is also verbally aggressive, unpredictable and in some ways a bit frightening. Luckily so far DH has been in every time she's called and has dealt with her, however I am concerned a out her calling when I'm alone as we have 3 young DC, including a toddler and a newborn so feel somewhat vulnerable. We've lived her over 4 years now.
The first time it happened we phoned 101, more for concern for her well being and they sent someone out to have a scout round for her (no idea of they found her). Recently 101 have no interest, just tell us to log it online, which I guess is understandable, from a police perspective it is mild verbal aggression so obviously they don't want to commit resources to it.
Tbh I do feel sorry for her but equally I just want her to stop knocking on the fucking door and scaring me and DC. Any one got any tips for dealing with this please? She is incredibly escalatory and my mild mannered DH has elicited some very colourful responses by suggesting solutions such as looking up the previous owner (who she claims is a relative) on Facebook or the electoral roll 😩