This is my second baby but my partner has not done any antenatal classes before so it might be useful. I want to have a better birth this time and I am considering having a planned caesarean. All the classes I have seen are about having a positive birth and doing hypnobirthing which I find really upsetting. I don’t want to do any positive affirmations or bounce up and down on a bouncy ball. Is there any point in going to any of them. Are there any helpful books or anything that we could do instead.