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Recurrent nightmares: is there a medical name for this so I can look it up?

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cosytows · 11/09/2022 08:19

A family member (female, age 50) suffers a recurrent nightmare, that there is an intruder in their bedroom. They sometimes sit up and scream out, and have to be gently woken and reassured by their partner that there is nobody there. Sometimes they dream they are being attacked, so they kick out violently, to the point that they have pulled leg muscles and kicked chunks of plaster out of the wall (not so bad as it sounds, as the bedroom is a loft conversion and they swivelled round, kicked upwards and hit a weak spot in the plastered eaves). There is no obvious pattern in the timings of the dreams - they can be months apart or twice in the same month. The dreams are not related to any specific trauma in their past. They've had intermittent vivid nightmares since childhood, often involving large spiders on the ceiling. However, the recurrent intruder dream started when they moved house 4 years ago and may or may not be related to peri-menopause, generalised anxiety and insomnia.

I'd like to do some reading around this. I've looked up "night terrors" but that term seems to be used mainly for children, at least by the NHS. Does anyone know of another medical term I can search for? I thought I saw one used in a previous thread but can no longer find it.

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ilovebagpuss · 11/09/2022 09:01

This could be totally unrelated but bear with me. My DD had a period of bad mental health with OCD and possibly some mood disorder. She was seeing people in her room thankfully non threatening but very vivid. Spiders are also a well known psychosis type visual disturbance. It may be nothing to do with mental health at all and she may just be unsettled from the move and fears or worries coming out in vivid dreams.
It's one thing to have scary dreams but the kicking bits of plaster out the wall seems to be a bit more or something than just anxiety.
Hopefully you will get some more advice.

Yewtown · 11/09/2022 09:21

REM sleep behaviour disorder. My husband gets it from time to time. He usually has a nightmare about rats attacking him so kicks and punches them away.

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